Answer Please I really need to know the information on should I save sex until marriage?
2007-05-04 05:02:58 · 23 answers · asked by JBreezy. 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you understand that your virginity is one of the greatest gifts you can offer your future husband. I tried to wait but didn't know the importance of waiting and how rewarding it can be. I had no one to really tell me to wait. I was hanging with sexually active girls at age 17 who encouraged me to go ahead and do it. At age 27 today, I wished I could have taken it back. Your husband will appreciate you for this too. God will bless you greatly for this too. You are definately worth the wait! I know that it can be very tempting and aggravating but it is worth the wait. Once you do become sexually active then you soon learn that SEX is NOT ALL THAT! There is a song by Lyfe Jennings called S.E.X. I recommend you listen to it.
2007-05-04 05:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Just Curious 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I am :) I didn't plan on doing that at first, but I've decided that I will now. If you have sex with a ton of people and then get married, that's a tie that you still carry with that person. Love waits! It's a bit of a contradiction though, as my ex-boyfriend and I had a very close relationship that often got very sexual, but we never actually had sex, because we both wanted to wait until marriage. We stopped being as sexual after about 8 months because of our religious views, and to be honest it saved our relationship, and we got a lot closer personally. We broke up because I had to move countries, not because our relationship stopped being sexual. So in summary yes, I'm waiting till marriage.
2016-04-01 08:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a person decision you and you have to decide on by your self.
Is the peer pressure going to be too much?
Can you wait that long?
What will your family think?
I think sex before marriage is a lot more accepted to day so the choice is really yours.
Good luck, x.
2007-05-04 05:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by ♥..::Amy::..♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 01:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it all depends. The whole reason that the church and society tells women to wait until they are married to have sex is so that there aren't a bunch of "bastard children" (kids without fathers) running around.
If you find someone you can trust and love, who you know is healthy and doesn't have any STD's (always use protection just in case) and you feel stable enough in the relationship, I think it's ok. Just take precautions so you don't get pregnant.
The reason I'm saying this is because I hate to tell you, but after you get married, that's it. Sex is only fun for about the first year most of the time. After that, it's pretty boring. So, you should have sex with at least 2-3 guys before getting married, including with the guy you are going to marry, to know if he is any good. I realize my comments are very untradtional, but sex is a very important part of marriage. If you are not sexually compatible, you will have lots of problems. You won't know if you're sexually compatible if you don't "test drive" the product first!
But, just be safe, and don't "sleep around" with just anyone. Guys can break your heart and slander your good name, and hurt you, not to mention the risks of STD's, pregnancy, etc.
If you have moral concerns, and feel you should wait until marriage, that is totally up to you. I'm about as conservative as they come, but I have to say - this is the same advice I will give my daughter. I think it's unrealistic to tell kids not to have sex until marriage. They will end up getting married to the first guy they want to have sex with.
2007-05-04 05:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe in staying pure till marriage, I think that is the greatest gift you can give to your future husband. It will mean a lot to him that you saved yourself for him, plus it will be more pleasurable for you too, to know that you waited.
2007-05-04 10:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by cookie monster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very personal decision, but I would say yes, wait until marriage.
2007-05-04 05:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should save sex for marriage. I know that many people won't agree with me but i really think that if you will wait till marriage then you will be able to enjoy it more.
2007-05-04 05:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by rocker2007 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think its a great idea. I had sex before I was married, and althought I dont regret it, I wish I could have given that gift to my husband. That would have been such a great thing to bond over. Plus, it really makes life easier not having to worry about getting pregnant or any STDs. You dont have to worry about condom or birth control.... I think its a noble idea and one that should be respected!
2007-05-04 05:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i would! I didnt and i wish i could take that back! If you dont wait till your married make sure its with someone who you truly love, care deeply for, and are 100% positive they feel the same way about you! Because its yours and you dont want to give it to someone who, when you look back 10,20, 30 years later and say to yourself, GEEZE i really should have saved it for "......" because it really wasnt all that special.....hope it helped :)
2007-05-04 05:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋