I suggest to you that you find a way to get away. Nothing like an adventure together, without kids, to have you two reconnect. It isn't so much about how you look, even though that is icing on the cake. But more of you two are relaxing and not being interupted by family or the laundry buzzer or a trip to the grocery store. More than likely, if you are not feeling sexy then he isn't either. It is our job as the woman to keep his interest, so if you don't have money for a new outfit...barrow one in your church network. If you just don't have any money then you HAVE to get someone to keep your kids for 2 nights (no phone or computer) and make love, cook his favorite foods, get movies and just breathe.
trust me, girl...husband works 50-60 hours a week and goes to school at night 4 nights a week, I understand! :)
2007-05-04 08:41:14
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answered by Lin B 3
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My wife is a 35 year old mother of 4. We have been married for 15 years and she is still as beautiful and sexy to me as she ever was and even more. She is sexy in part because she is a confident and intelligent woman. She is still a beauty as well and even if to the rest of the world her beauty should ever fade it never will to me. So ask yourself this...
to whom are you not sexy?? To/for whom, do you wish to be sexy?? Is it for you or for your husband or is it about attracting another? If it for the latter then the issues that you have may be deeper than your outer beauty. It is not your age or your children or your marriage that can remove sexy from you. Only you can do that.
2007-05-04 10:08:15
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answered by unholycricket 5
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I am the mom of 3 from age 22 to 16. I am 40 years old and have gained a few pounds over the years, but still sexy. Find what makes YOU feel sexy. What makes you feel good and alive. Bubble bath, make-up, a certain color or blouse, etc. Find it and go for it.
2007-05-04 10:12:46
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answered by DeadHelen 4
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Of course! I'm 42, four kids, ranging 20 - 4, and my older sons always tell me their friends say I'm hot and sexy and don't look like I ever had kids. Just eat right, keep your face clean with good moisturizer, don't gain a lot of weight, keep an up to date hair style, wear make up (not too much) and the right clothes! See, it's easy? (I just made my self tired).
2007-05-04 09:57:08
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answered by bina64davis 6
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Its all in how carry yourself. If you think youre sexy, then you are. Get a new outfit, slap on that makeup, and show your man that you still got it goin on. Im 38 and I consider myself very sexy. Its all up to you. Get some confidence back, and youll be on your way.*
2007-05-04 09:59:05
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answered by Check this out! 7
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Well someone thought you were sexy 4 times anyway !!! *smile* It's all in the attitude. Think sexy and you will be sexy !!! Act sexy and you are sexy !!!!!! Take some time to pamper yourself everyday. I know it will be hard with 4 children but do it !!!!!! And remember sweetie ....... you are sexy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-04 10:08:14
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answered by Diana 7
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If your a mother of 4 it is apparent to me that you are still sexy to the one Man that counts, your hubby.
2007-05-04 10:06:49
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answered by BRY 2
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Come on Amy you can do this but first find a place for the kids to stay the night, and picture in your mind if you will, A nice candle light dinner all his faves of course. Nice romantic music in the background. You in a nice but revealing nightie, he will get the hint belive me!!! Then this is how both of you will be ;o) Got it!!!
2007-05-04 10:02:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Sexy is an attitude, rather than a physical attribute
2007-05-04 10:04:29
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answered by Experto Credo 7
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Here's a thought. Just be sexy! Be romantic. Don't be boring. Show off your body (just alittle)
2007-05-04 09:56:24
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answered by Dr. J 6
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