what is it with him?

Question

this guy told me he liked me more than a friend and i said i didnt feel the same so hes like bcum a stalker. he always made me feel guilty cus he was 'so depressed' so i told him flat out i didnt want to be his friend. then he came to both these parties BY HIMSELF and just stared at me. its freaking me out. he's always been a clingy weirdo, he talks like an old man and hes a perve. whaddya think?

Answer 1

If he is really stalking you, and is making you scared because of it, you need to report this to the police.

Sometimes people live in their own little dream world and cannot or will not take no for an answer.

You may need to have a restraining order sworn out against this guy, he sounds as if he could be dangerous, and at a the very least, creepy.

I have had similar things happen to me in my lifetime, and even though I am married, it did not seem to make a difference to the person who was interested.

My husband had to intervene on one occasion and when he was traveling for work and another incident occurred, I had to have a friends husband intervene, and then when that didn't work I had to go to the police.

It is an uncomfortable feeling to have someone you are not interested in telling you that you are basically responsible for his depression.

If you have another guy friend who could say that he was your boyfriend, that may also help. (it wouldn't hurt if your guy friend was a bit larger and more intimidating.....) Sometimes putting someone else in the picture can be helpful.

I don't know how old you are, but if you are under the age of eighteen, you need to tell your parents about what is going on.

Please be careful and make sure everyone knows about this guys totally creepy actions.

Best of luck to you and be safe.

Answer 2

I think you need to avoid this guy at all cost, try to stay with someone at all times. And if you feel it is necessary seek help from the government.

Answer 3

get a restraining order