would you tell them straight you stink? or just suggest it in a nice way? or if it continues tell them not to hang around with you anymore?
2007-05-04 01:16:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look i will tell you the truth , he dont change his undies at all these days an he stinks of warm crap an piss on hot days as weel as b.o he works at hollands pies ... not many very hygeineic there.. they dont wash their hands after toiet breaks many of them...
2007-05-04 02:02:05 · update #1
HA HA, my brother is 33 and he is just like this, a real scum bag. He acts like he is some kind of throw back, like soap has not been invented. Man, tell this bloke straight, there is nothing worse than bad b.o. especially from the private parts that is just humming and minging. dirty boy!!
2007-05-04 05:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by treacle0511 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell them...I have boys...3 that are at that age where deoderent is needed more and more and well they wont listen to me when I tell them their friends will tell them they stink. Tell your friend before they get picked on. Just say, Listen I don'twant to seem mean but you have body odor and I would want someone to tell me that if I did. I want to share something with you..my parents were cruel when it came to me. I was only allowed to shower once a week and they never bought me deodernet through 9th grade and then I moved in with bio dad. I know darn well they did it to keep boys away. Maybe your friends parents dont encourage hygeine. You could also speak to the school guidance counselor or health teacher and maybe they could take this kid aside and talk to them about proper hygeine.
2007-05-04 01:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybugs77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had mate who stunk of B.O and never shaved her armpits, the think is she was a pretty lass and men were enetersted in her but the minute it comes to the first kiss they run a mile and no one told her the truth behind it all just made lame excuses but i dont blame them i hated going near her especially when she came to hug me and i had to stop breathing for a few seconds any way in the end i had to tell her in confidence cos i couldnt bare it, i was really nice to her and told her she smelt and that may be the reason why men sort of back off. She couldnt take critisism and stopped talking to me so i told her to ram it next time and she still to this day remain single.
so id say try ur luck but dont be suprised if they becoe offended. Good luck
2007-05-04 01:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends really on the person. I know if it was me i would like to know that i stink so that i can take care of the problem. But some people might take it a little differently than that. If it as me and it was a friend as a friend I think it would be my job to tell him.
2007-05-04 01:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Man of love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a friend, but I am a lecturer and sometimes I have students who frankly stink! I actually find it one of the most stressful parts of the job - it's much easier to tell someone they've failed an exam that tell them they need a bath!
2007-05-04 01:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Avondrow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the friend that smelt of b.o. it was nothing to do with bad hygeine it was just hormonal when i hit puberty. i did have some people tell me to my face i stank, which hurt a lot and no one tried to do it subtly. i wish someone had, preferably my family but no one did. try addressing it with them but be polite about it and listen if they want to talk about it. you may be surprised to find they know but don't know what to do about it! i didn't!
2007-05-04 01:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Andromeda Newton™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one thing I hate about this time of year is BO from others.I'd say something like "Cor, can you smell that?" in front of your friend.Then I'd say "It smells like BO and stale clothing...can you smell it in here?".I'd then go on to say how fussy and sensitive I am to strong body odors.Try not to make it too obvious that you are referring to them, but if they do ask if you think it's them, try a sympathetic look in their direction and tell them how difficult it was for you to raise the subject.So much so, you have had to ask for advice from others on how to deal with it.Good luck!
2007-05-04 02:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by CMH 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i had a friend who always smelt of bo people used to talk about it behind her back so 1 day i said to her to one side people think you smell of bo and to be honest i agree and its not that nice lets go to boots and get some wipes to freshen you up and some smellys and then maybe you should go to the doctors they can help with problems like this she cryied thanked me and i went with her to the doctors and now her problem is resolved i know its not nice but you have to sometimes do things that are awkward. good luck
2007-05-04 02:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Linh N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this person,he can strip paint off walls with his breath, at least he 's not going out with a lesbian who has a face like a bag of chissels. i also know another guy works at hollands smells of sheep dip always doing his shopping what an hygenic place to work
2007-05-04 02:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of my closest friends is a little overweight and suffers with terrible B O
I never say anything I'm afraid of upsetting her but when she hugs me the last thing you wont is custard coloured armpit stains on you.
This is a tricky one.
2007-05-04 01:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋