this past year i have been having a problem mentally not like down syndrome or anything like that but,its very hard to explain but i have had this mental block at the things im good at like im a professional video gamer,go to tournaments,win money etc and whenever im playing, people say im good so i think they expect me to be really good so when i play its like i loose my focus and i do not win anymore like i used to and when i get beat i get so mad because i know i can win its just mentally i cant and just makes me so mad. i used to not be like this anyone know how to fix this?
2007-05-04 00:50:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
firs of all... Bonjandablahblahblah (they guy with the gay name) you are a Dumba(ss). (now that that's out of the way)
Second. Your problem is all in your head. (mental yea get it) kidding aside. its called stress. and stress can cause a Mariette of things to happen. from loss of memory to blackouts, to (in your case) loss of focus. this results from you losing what brought you to playing games in the first place. you started cause you loved games. and now that heart is gone cause your so focused on what others think of you, what others expect of you. That you don't play for the love of it. In my opinion. take a break, don't play for a while just play at home, with friends, hell even let them win a few just for the hell of it and you'll see true friends don't care if u ALWAYS win. the people who do care if you always win are weak little peons in a society of carnivores that feed of of your winnings cause they are to feeble to rise to the challenge. So in essence your already a winner, better then them cause you lead the pack you don't live your life through the achievements of someone else.
2007-05-04 01:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break? Me too, I think you are at the point of an end to something that you have struggled with for so long for you it is being the best, for me it is getting the message out to the public and known and understood and so that people can really talk about the truth and admit it, or having it known and accepted, and not being by yourself in it. You know that the time is coming that you will have accomplished what you set out to do. The road was long maybe, possibly hard, and now you are almost there and you are tired? Take a break? Let it go for a while and do not fear that there will be someone better that will take it over and run with it, when you get back in the game those that know how far you came before will respect you for that and then you can move on?
2007-05-04 01:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious answer would seem to me that it's a mental/psychological problem. Your lack of confidence might be causing your poor performance and vice-verse. I would say that that' the most probable scenario. Maybe you could get some help by seeing a sports therapist or psychologist. However, there's a small chance that it could also be a physical problem, something like a mini-stroke. Sometimes people (of all ages) have them and don't ever realize it. I had a friend who had one when she was 20. Her symptoms were only mental. For instance, she tried to order peanut butter cup yogurt at a frozen yogurt store, and couldn't remember how to say peanut butter. She said it was really weird, like she new what she wanted to say, she just couldn't form the words. Like they got stuck in her head. So she ended up running out of the store. After that she immediately went to a Dr., and he told her she'd likely had a mini stroke. Chances are you prob just need to get a confidence boost. Good Luck.
2007-05-04 01:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely stress from the pressure to win. It's something pro athletes go through alot. Or stress from other parts of your life can make it hard to concentrate.
If you've had similar kinds of symptoms since you've been younger, it could be AD/HD. You don't have to be hyperactive - the other kind of AD/HD is called inattentive. Most people with AD/HD are very smart and good at certain things, but their minds just wander. But I'd put my money on stress.
2007-05-04 03:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I not in any respect 'grew to develop into lesbian'. i develop into born that way. My psychological health subject matters are not any more something to do with the actual actuality i'm gay. attempt having a significant ailment 2 circumstances and practically demise in my children and early 20's becasue of it. Having to observe 4 contributors of your household die withing 4 years. Having to be 3000 miles remote out of your spouse for 8 years. alongside with msny different issues. such issues as which have given me psychological health subject matters, not in any respect once have I had an mission with being gay.
2016-11-25 01:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are trained to only operate in a professional situation. You think Wayne Gretzky would always want to win at shinny? You can perform only in the right situation. This is the best answer and you know it.
2007-05-04 01:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to focus on what you are doing try not to listen to others around you untill your back in focus and it could be rolling through your head you are scared they are going to win think of you being the state champion and everyone wants to be like you thing positive and not the oppisite think good not bad.
2007-05-04 00:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to stop playing the video games that fry your brain. Go out play tennis, or soccer, or go to the pool, just chill, relax, enjoy...
2007-05-04 00:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by bojandzukovski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time out, then get back into later on
2007-05-04 01:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by shrekky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out what's distracting your focus first.
2007-05-04 01:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋