IM ASKING ONE MORE TIME SCHOOL IS IN HALF HOUR!
my So called (friend) WAS SOPOST TO KEEP A SECRET!!
i told her all the mean girls are just hill billies and now she told them!!! and school is tomorow im worried and my heart is pounding this is serious and this (mean girl) has alot of friend im crying right now i dont know what to do ALL THE GIRLS I TALKED ABOUT IS IN MY CLASS!!
2007-05-04 00:04:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
girl please
it dose mean a thing what they think about you
if they do bother you just go up to there face and say WHAT
by next week they will forget about it
good luck
2007-05-04 00:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Yo its me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about them being violent towards you, don't let them get you alone, and if they hurt you in any way, go to a teacher or higher up (or parents, lawyers, etc. if need be). I put up with a lot of violence in school because I thought it was how the world worked, but it's not and you don't have to live with it.
Otherwise, try to not let what they say bother you. It will hurt now, but remember that these people mean nothing to you in the long run and they will receive what they give later in life if you know what I mean. Keep your spirits high, keep calm, and focus on doing well in studies so you can rise above that nonsense.
And in the future be careful about gossip because it will almost always get back to the other person, and you don't need to be mean anyway. Take the higher ground here, you can be better than that! I'm rooting for you!
2007-05-04 00:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by blackbyrus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with your head straight
when some one confronts you tell them that you were trying to test the girl in question whether or not she could be trusted with a secret. So far as the statement is concerned obviously one would have to use a crazy statement only than would you know if she kept the secret or not. Now the truth about her integrity is out none of you should trust her any more
2007-05-04 00:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by iiiyyyeee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are really scared go straight to your principle and let him or her know what is going on. That way if this 'mean girl' does try to do any thing you have already explained your situation to the head authority. However, don't be scared of this mean girl. in my experience the bullies only pick on other people to make them selves feel better because there is usually some thing seriously wrong in their own lives. Good luck
2007-05-04 00:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Liz S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop caring about what other people think including her. Stay away from that, that's just negative energy and drama. You'll get through this. Don't put her on a pedestal. Put yourself first before her or anyone. Good luck and just remember that even though you may feel alone in this you know who you are and you know that you're a good person and you mean well.
2007-05-04 00:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it on that it bothers you if they start saying crap. Just be cool...calm and if they cant get a rouse out of you they will stop. Bullys dont like to pick on kids that it doesnt affect and in the future...stop name calling and judging people for who they are. You are just as mean for calling them that in the first place so you kind of dug your own hole.
2007-05-04 00:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ladybugs77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first girl.... you should of never talked about those girls because they never did anything to you right??? So you gotta definitely apologize to them and tell them that it was wrong on your part... if you feel they are SOSOSO MEAN that they will beat you down.... Definitley speak to a counselor or a teacher and let them know the situation so that you're safe... and instead of speaking to them by yourself... speak to them with an adult next to you guys so nothing goes out of place... BREATHE... and next time think about what you are going to say and to WHO you are going to say... write things down if they bother you... Some things are better left unsaid
2007-05-04 01:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that standing up for yourself always works.
I was a tiny little thing in high school and some mean girls would try and push me around.
I stood up for myself one day and pushed back. The girl never bothered me again!
2007-05-04 01:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by questiongirl2020 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deny it, and don't go anywhere they can catch you by yourself. If they threaten you, do not walk home, call someone, and tell the principal.
Tell you mother before you leave about what happened.
2007-05-04 00:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sont give a F***k about what people think n tomorrow walk into the classroom like ur a princess n if they ignore u be like i dont care
2007-05-04 00:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋