2007-05-03 16:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I use to when I was younger. i feel woman tend to do that especially after they have children. Now, I'm much better, I am not responsible for anyone but myself!! Yeah♥♥
2007-05-03 16:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONSTANTLY-except its probably really YOUR fault.
Seriously though I blame myself for things that are SO not under my control.
I think it comes from low self esteem and fear of punishment or judgement from others-that's what it is in me anyway-I always wanted to please my parents because I feared their anger-so I end up trying to make sure everyone is accomodated around me-if something goes wrong-even if its not remotely related to my actions I do find a way to accept blame or responsibility for it.
It's very challenging to break this cycle-I've found that the Serenity prayer helps-God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. If I begin from the assumption that most things are beyond my control or influence then that helps me shrug off the things that bother me as though they were my fault.
Therapy is helping me sort through this-hope you are able to overcome this too-it drains the life right out of me-I don't know about you.
Peace,
Dwight
2007-05-03 23:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by revmccormick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the opposite. Even if it is my fault, I will find a man or small child to blame!
2007-05-03 23:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by LadyPerk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MAN!! yes! Things like, I work in a sub shop and if some1 orders something and I make it & they realize that's not what they really wanted I'm always saying oh! I'm sorry!! and it's not my fault! I blame myself for alot of things that I know aren't my fault & I don't really know why????
2007-05-04 00:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I look stupid??? Even if it is my fault, I blame somebody else, After all, that's the American way isn't it???
2007-05-03 23:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, yes. Then after I'm done feeling sorry for myself, I figure out a way to make it better next time. The way I see it, we are entitled to the pity pot, but get off it before your legs go to sleep. :)
2007-05-03 23:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by metal706 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, lots of times.
2007-05-03 23:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm surprised and happy when it's not my fault
2007-05-03 23:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never
2007-05-03 23:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahhhhhhhhh
I try to make sure everyone KNOWS its not my fault.
(just in case)
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2007-05-04 04:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ron K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋