than getting angry and telling a survivor of domestic abuse that you don't blame their abuser?
2007-05-03 15:27:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My husband is not the one that said this, so please don't worry.
2007-05-03 15:36:02 · update #1
That would be very insensitive,
2007-05-03 15:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow, who have you been talking to today? yes it is ignorant and immature, and it is demeaning, and corrupt, especially if they fought their cause like they were right to the end, leaving that person to be brainwashed that it is all (their) the victims fault, and they should just back down the next time someone abuses them, cause they deserved it. That is how the cycle starts, when they lose their will to fight because someone made them believe it was all their fault, makes me think that the person who said that must be an abuser.
2007-05-03 15:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is horrible. Domestic abuse is no laughing matter, or something to pull into a dispute as a weapon.
Sick.
2007-05-03 15:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm No there isn't! However, it sounds like that person keeps attracting the same kind of significant other & needs to get some therapy before entering anymore relationships!
2007-05-03 15:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why makes a person so angry enough to say something that hurtful is beyond me, but I believe people can be so angry and be hurtful when really they don't really mean it.
2007-05-03 15:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a horrible thing to say! Whoever said that really is immature AND ignorant!
2007-05-03 15:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by ~♥Angel Of Music♥~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my ex called the cops on her boyfriend, one of them actually said, "a woman needs to be smacked once in a while."
2007-05-03 15:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Happy Pants 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely not do that.... the abuser is the one to blame.....
2007-05-03 15:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by from HJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i've been there, i hear ppl say all the time "She must like it or she'd leave" i want to tell them to f*ck off! No one knows unless their in the situation.
2007-05-03 15:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by lori l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just idiotic...I came from a home of violence and it'd piss me off if somebody made it sound like I asked for it!
2007-05-03 15:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's got to be up there on the list of stupidity.
2007-05-03 15:32:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋