My g/f and ex g/f is pregnant with my baby? please help?

Question

My current g/f cassie who i just got back together with today is pregnant with my child. She decided to give me another chance but we got alot to work out. I do love her with all my heart but i still have feelings for my ex g/f jess. She doesn't even want to talk to me because of my affair with cassie. I met cassie a year ago and i was with jess at the time. I felled in love with cassie when i met her on the beach last summer. She is beautiful and so is jess, they both got great personialty. When i told jess about cassie she slapped me across the face and told me to get out of her life, i tried to hold her but she pushed me away. i dont care what jess says, i will be there for jess and our baby. Cassie is crazy about me and she gave me another shot and i will not blow this time, when i met cassie, i couldnt break it off with jess because i did not want to hurt her because i had feelings for cassie and jess and i still do alot but i am with a great girl in cassie. we are in high school

we are in high school, jess is a senior and me and cassie are juniors. I will not abandand jess and our baby even if she says she wants me out of her life. I will def not abandand cassie or our unborn baby, cassie is my life. I do got a job after school but it is at walmart. cassie and jess work too. I did something stupid, i will admit it even with my pride, i got into a fight with jess's brother because jess told him that i cheated on her with cassie. he came up to me and said some **** and said why u cheated on jess. i did tried to walk away and he said where are you going chickenshit, going to the wh*re you cheated with on jess. I turned around and punched him and we got into a fight. 4 teachers had to break it up, i broke his nose and igot a blackeye. I will not abandand jess even if she doesnt love me anymore. Cassie is crazy about me and i am crazy about her. when i told her about jess, she wanted to still be with me and i did work my charm alittle but she told me she will think

she came over to my place tonight and told me that she wanted to be with me but we have alot to work to patch our relationship up. i started crying and she started crying too. i said i love you and cassie said i love you too. i started working my charm. i started brushing my hand on her cheek and she wanted me i could tell. I didnt want to kiss her because i thought it wasnt the right time, she said well r u going to kiss me, i pulled her close and gave her a kiss which lead to one passinate kiss IMO. She loved it, but i didnt want to hurt jess but it just happened, me and cassie met and i felled in love, i felt something bigger between both of us. i think jess does not want nothin to do with me because i found the lockit i gave to her smashed on my frontporch. I also gave cassie one with a pic of me and her in it and she wears it everyday. BTW Cassie looks great in lingerie and a bikini lol. jess does too and they both have great personaity.

i feel so fu*ken stupid, my god dam life feels like a god damn soap opera love triangle god dam it and i dont fu*ken like it

Answer 1

You really are confused but worse than that, you are 1/2 responsible for bringing a new life into this world. I hope that when the baby is born that Cassie and you have the good sense to put it up for adoption. You are both too young to take on the responsibility of raising a child; you are children yourselves.

Also, please, please if you cannot abstain from sexual relations do the right thing and use protection. There are too many diseases out there that kill...don't put yourself at risk.

You should be more concerned with what you are going to do with the rest of your life...love will come, but you must love yourself first and have a goal...like that old country song says...you got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything.

I wish you the best...don't be in a hurry to "grow up".... Blessings to you.

Answer 2

I am a junior in high school also but you need to grow up and stop acting like a kid. If you love cassie stay with her. talk to jess and camly talk things out. it's time to grow up dpn'y make the mistake my 24 year old brother made. he has 4 kids all from different girls and he just went to court and is now broke paying for child support instead of having fun and going out with friends at the age of 24 don't make that mistake. good luck next time wear a condom lol

Answer 3

The reason your life seems like a soap opera is because you write it up like it is. It would seem much less like a soap opera, but every bit as truthful, to say "I am a horny little b@$tard who can't keep it in my pants, and now I get to fork over 17% of my income PER CHILD to the babies' mommas who I talk about truly loving and being faithful to, but will most likely leave so that I can get some other girl pregnant and repeat the whole unbelievably stupid cycle. And by the way, I'm manipulative and arrogant." See, that tells your story, without sounding like a soap opera.

Answer 4

well romeo looks like there are going to be alot of issues for a lonnnng time... with both the girl having a child to you, you have to be a man and choose which girl you are with 100%. going back and forth between them will only screw up your mind, thier minds and your kids mind. Once has to be your woman, the other your friend. You are a daddy to both kids, and if you are smart you will keep both in your life, treat both women well, but have a definate understanding of which girl you are in a relationship with. you cant have it both ways.2 women = 1 lover, one friend. this = 3 stable adults and 2 non screwed up kids. sit , think, choose, talk to both of them together all three of you work it out... you are looking at the rest of your lives connected, so you may as well make a mature start of it and all agree on the outcome. good luck

Answer 5

Stop screwing around or your gonna be one broke guy. You're gonna have to be a man now and do best for your kids, work 2 jobs and give them $. Works something out with Jess, like visitation, joint custody, stay with Cassie, she did give you another chance and be a good father and a good role model for your kids. You're a man now, start acting like one.

Answer 6

you aint doin nuthin in school but tryin to get girlfriends.
go ahead and drop out so you can start savin up for this child support.

you cheated on jess, you will cheat on cassie, and being the idiot u are, you will probably get somebody else pregnant. i hope you learned something. have fun being the father of two young babies. they need A LOT of diapers. lol

Answer 7

it's good to know that you will be there to support both of these babys,but you really suffted up big time, when you got them both pregnant. if cassie is the one you want to be with then i hope you work things out, as for jess,she feels betrayed and i don't blame her, what are you thinking having un protected sex..... unfortunately now this will haunt you for the rest of your life... sometimes in life we make some bad decisions, only now you have to deal with them....

Answer 8

WHAT THE HELL!!! okay i might be being a little rude about this ****, but actually u did abandon ''jess" this isn't who looks better in what or who is better to you. DAMN RIGHT JESS SHOULD NOT BE WITH YOU!!! she is pregnant with you kid n you get another girl pergnant??? what the hell.. these are babies you know right.. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU ANY MORE OR YOUR STUPID CHARM?!?!?!? These babies need a hell of alot more then it seems you can give them. i will be the first one to admit that sh*t happens but if your writting this to try to get us make you feel better THEN THAT WAS THE WRONG MOVE..BECAUSE you sound like a jerk!!!!!! and i feel very bad for both girls you shuold raely feel like sh*t and never be with another girl again.. thats stupid and i have no respect for you

Answer 9

Holding back your kiss was one of the wisest things you've done thus far.
I suggest that you stay with the one you truly love, get 2 more jobs to pay child support. Be there for both your children no matter what.
Good luck and keep your pants on and your trap closed.

Answer 10

You need to start using condoms for Petes Sake. You dont need 800 babies while you're in high school. And after the first time around with Jess, you should've known to start using them...