How can i tell if a kid is mine without dna test?

Question

the mother and i had a long distance relationship. i wore a condom. when she says she got preg. from me she was just ending her period. only 2 days after it ended. she is very untrustworthy and has a history of mental problems ive just learned. the child a pretty newborn girl has brown eyes and hair. i have blue eyes and dark brown hair. im white irish and french and she is full blooded mexican. she lives in texas and me in california.

Answer 1

Well, if you are a woman, and you give birth to a baby, it is yours.

If you are a man and you had sex with a woman who had a baby around 9 months later and she didn't have sex with anyone else, it is obviously yours.

If either of the above does not apply, you are going to have to get a DNA test. There is no other fail proof method.

Answer 2

Are you talking about a baby or an older child that you already know. If it is a new baby get the dna test. If it is an older child that you have been loving for awhile, leave it alone. Just keep on giving the love and it will be your child forever. A dad is a parent that is always there, is caring and understanding. Does things with his kids and sees to it that they have what they need. Material and emotional. A beautiful bond will happen. Doesn't matter about the blood-line. Some blood fathers are nothing but sires. Are never around for their kids.

Answer 3

Funny how all the answers from the women on this page remind you about your Penis and how baby making works. Truth is women are on earth to obtain your semen if they deem you worthy enough that is. Get a P test because something you won't likely here is 4 out of 10 guys are raising a kid that they think is theirs, I read that in a medical journal, and these doctors say they realize through everyday procedures, if they stumble on to this fact they are not required to tell the father and could be sued if they did.
. Remember most women have a type so of course he looks a little like you LOL.

Answer 4

There is no real way with out performing a DNA test, but i guess if the kid has any or most of features, then he is probably yours. Also look for pictures of when you were a baby and if he looks like that then most likely he is yours.

Why the question? Why don't you want to a DNA test?

Answer 5

welll there isnt no way you can tell if the child is really youres ? you must need take a DNA test in case if that child is really 100% youre blood child . or you can go to the court and have a illagel paper that can prove that its youre kid or not by must have a prove answer from the judge, doctor , the state with their names on it .

Answer 6

Well, there are some ways of knowing if it's a possibility. Like, if you know the first day of her last period before you had sex, and the actual date that you had sex, that might tell you.

Or, if you know your blood type and the baby's blood type, that can either eliminate you as the father, or just make it a possibility.

http://www.genetree.com/resource/aboBloodTypeCalculator.php

Answer 7

There is no way of knowing for sure without DNA test.

Answer 8

you can't know for sure until you have taken a dna test or youre female friend comes out clean! good luck!

Answer 9

send me a picture of the mother, yourself, and the kid. I actually have a computer program that will compare facial and other characteristics, it's not 100% accurate, but it'll give you a good idea. [e-mail]

Answer 10

most likely from your physical look ie body feature,appearance,behavior,sound,walking style,hobbies,likes.Atleast there will be some similarities between you and the kid. Instincts and the bond automatically attracts the bond.