I got a songogram showing i was 14 wks and 5 days on 04/04 which measured babies brain and abdomen, however on 03/05 i got sono showing i was 10 wks 0 days and on 3/21 i got sono showing 12 wks 2 days which meaured crown rump length only which of the three sonos would be the most accurate? I slept with 2 different people 1 day apart my boyfriend is who ejaculated in me the ex pulled out! Boyfriend ejaculated in me on 01/05 and 01/08 i slept w/the ex on 01/06. I don't know what to do.
2007-05-03 10:50:58 · 25 answers · asked by clove 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
heres an idea. stop sleeping around. now you get to wait for paternity testing. yay.
2007-05-03 10:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by spacey 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Well don't rely on the sonogram. They can be off up to a week sometimes which won't help you in this case. Did your ex know that you had a bf? You could always wait till the baby is born(you have to anyways)and have your ex do a paternity test. Then you will have your answer. But try not to worry now. There is nothing that can be done right now. Its healthier for you and your baby at this point.
2007-05-03 18:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe biggest problem here is not who the father is, but who the mother is.
What to do now?
Get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.
Don't do drugs, drink alcohol, or smoke. Eat a good balanced diet. Take your vitamins and keep your appointments for prenatal care.
Move in with a supportive roommate who doesn't allow "sleepovers" and have her help you stay accountable.
Get a paternity test when the baby comes so you know who to hit up for child support.
OR find a good adoptive family for your baby (maybe the best choice)
None of these US's are accurate to less than 3 days. You'll just have to wait for that answer.
2007-05-03 18:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by beeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happens when you cheat! you must tell your boyfriend the truth and have dna testing done.there may be a test that you can do before the baby is born if not you will have to wait.inform the other loser too he also has the right to know and he has a right to have paternity established also.this crap makes all women look bad cause so many of you pull this s hit and never tell the guy you cheated and someone else might be the daddy you only think of yourselves! good luck and learn something dont sleep around and if you do use a condom everytime!
2007-05-03 18:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to wait until the baby is born. But most like is that its your current boyfriend because he is the one who actually ejaculated more time and more amounts in you. But there are slim chances that it could be your ex's and that is due to precum (that could be stronger that your b/f's ***)
Does your current boy friend now that you were with your ex?
If not any you don't want him to find out, then you will have to do a DNA test on your ex when the baby is born. If it not your ex's then you are OK (just take this as a lesson, and don't cheat on your b/f). But if it is then you will have to confess to your b/f and deal with that situation when the time comes.
2007-05-03 18:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it looks like you are going to have a baby. What difference does it make weather you are 10 wks. or 12 wks.
Big deal, 2 weeks. The baby could be 2 wks. late or early. No one would be the wiser.
Stop sleeping around and be true to the guy you are with. Does it make a difference who's the daddy anyway. You aren't Nicole Smith. Will you be staying with b.f.#2 or going back to the ex. Whom ever you pick, do it now. Tell them it is their kid. Pick the better fellow so he will be a good daddy.
2007-05-03 18:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by peach 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Only a dna will show. It takes 3-5 days for the sperm to reach the egg. If you are trying to find out the father, start counting 3-5 days before the conception dates.
-So, 2 men on the same day huh? I used to live like that.... I ended up getting an STD. Ask your dr to check for std's. They can travel to the baby. Not trying to judge or lecture, just trying to help. Hope all works out.
2007-05-03 18:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop sleeping around. It doesn't matter if the ex pulled out or not. You could be pregnant w/ either guys baby. You are in a pretty big dilemma right now and I suggest that you don't lie about what's going on. It's only going to make it worse for you and your child!
2007-05-03 18:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all take a deep breath. second you have a problem and the only left to do is find out who the father is. which that road is going to be bumpy. not only will your boyfriend be pissed off, but you have to deal with an ex-boyfriend. After that, you need to decide what your going to do. being a parent is a big responsibility and be strong so what ever you decide Good luck!
2007-05-03 17:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by APRIL B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you have created quite the situation for yourself and your child. Aside from the overabundance of information that you supplied for the entire world to read, all I really have to say is, when you have unprotected sex with multiple partners, this is what happens. You need to get the baby's DNA tested after birth. This child deserves to know who their father is, even if YOU don't.
2007-05-03 18:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by PDXmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and be more mature before deciding to have children. If you cant make up your mind of who you want to sleep with, how are you going to make up your mind on decisions of another human being? Not cool. No sonogram is ever right. My friend had her baby today. She had 5 due dates from different sonograms. Ranging from April 28th thru may 12th. It varies in every person
2007-05-03 18:23:46 · answer #11 · answered by mannasox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋