2007-05-03 10:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Find people who you are interested in listening to (interesting people). Let them do most of the talking, especially at first. Everyone will think you are very outgoing and a great talker.
2007-05-03 10:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Yo it's Me 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Besides what llordllo said, I suggest you take some selfenrichment courses. Not necessary professional courses. The more things you know, the more confident you will feel. Sometimes, we are shy because we feel we are not the same wavelength of others thus we avoid them. Shyness in adult is never an easy hurdle to cross so do not lose confidence.
2007-05-11 03:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Vico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To control shyness is overcoming it.... You need to just make an effort and put yourself out there and take risks, experience the things that are holding you back, conquer your fears to prove to yourself and gain the courage and confidence that will diminish the low self-esteem and insecurity shyness feeds on.
2007-05-04 08:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to make everyone like you or be concerned about each individual's opinion. Accept thats ome people will misunderstand you or not like you... that's not bad, it just is (this is not to say anyone should MAKE people dislike them...).
With this in mind, you can now concentrate on forming relationships with just the good people, the people you like. Don't expect to make you impact all at once: be independent and who you are and give it time. If it is supposed to happen, it will. If not, that's not bad... it just is.
2007-05-03 23:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by llordlloyd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
~~~ I'm kind of shy,BUTT!! I love attention. So to cure it,I tried Karoke singing. I had a captive audiience, and I loved it. Now I can't pass up an open mike where ever I go.~~~
2007-05-11 16:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by donelle g. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up yourself, talk to more people.
Help others. Be a volunteer. Participate in more community and group activities.
2007-05-04 02:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by alvinli2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk- but u meet specific ppl that just u feel comftable towards
but hey wanna lose ur shyness-try getting to know the person and what not.
2007-05-03 19:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend to be shy. u can begin to control, it more when u do
2007-05-04 00:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by StealthShadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that you can. then do it.
2007-05-10 17:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by robthomasjr2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋