Nothing personal guys.....?

Question

just having a bad day with my ex and need to do a little man bashing. The question is:
Is anyone else on here having issues with their idiot ex and want to compare notes? Heck, guys join in if you want and tell about your idiot ex because we all know (even though most women want to believe they aren't) women can be just as damaging to children to get back at the ex.

Oh, I wasn't saying I was damaging my son, my ex is....I was just pointing out if guys wanted to join in on the bashing because women have been known to do damage too feel free. I am actually pissed at my ex only because he continually hurts my son to get at me.

What my idiot ex did was to abandon his son at birth, return 7 years later and tell him he left because I remarried, told him he would leave again if I remarried because my son would no longer need him as a father, calls my son a ******, threatens to put him in a dress if he doesn't get his hair buzzed off, shows him porn, refuses to give him meds that he needs to function properly, told my son his brothers are not his brothers because he (my ex did not spawn them),and the list goes on. It has nothing to do with shopping sprees or anything my ex did to me but what he is currently doing to my son and how he is treating him.

Defense for spelling against cassius:
Hello, not all relationships work out and just because they don't work out does not mean dad/mom just bails on the kids. My fiance had a child before we met an he is still a father to his son which is what attracted my to him in the first place that just because he no longer lived with his son he spent every minute humanly possible with him. He is lucky enough to work days so that when his son wants (he's a teen now so girls and friends come b4 parents) to come over he's always there for him.

Had a little guy, married someone, divorced (both decisions made young and spontanious), and am now remarrying a wonderful, mature responsible man after a long, committed relationship.
The one I am "ranting" about is the father of my little guy (my ex) who isn't so little anymore.

Answer 1

used to i was stalked at uni for three years after being with him only a few months
then when i eventually did report it he was asked to intermit the last year when i was there

i found out he enetred the police force ad was living locally to me

saw him a couple of years ago with his wife and he ran out of the store whne he saw me

all that ignoring finally paid off

what a creep

Answer 2

Were I to endeavor to describe My 'ex' I would have to devise a whole new language based entirely upon expletives, obscenities and epithets of the most scatological nature known to either Man or beast.
Thank You for Your kind offer but I prefer to take the moral high ground and think that I deserve better than Her. You should really think along the same lines. Cheers.

Answer 3

I know of someone close to me who is experiencing not quite that bad as you've explained, but pretty bad things. It is reversed and he is a solid decent person interested in raising his son right and correctly and SHE's the idiot who doesn't care about hurting the poor child. It's digesting because unless he can catches her dealing drugs or committing homicide somewhere, the courts seem to overlook her sour deeds & intentions. The child is being trained to lie, steal, cheat disrespect adults, etc.,etc., and his lawyer told him that HE pick her to be the mother of his child. Now, he has to a least accept PART of the responcibility of it because he picked this person to be the parent of his child. It makes me sick.

Answer 4

Why yes, I'm always up to bashing my ex husband. His latest little "escapade" is that he has not contacted our son in over a week (he lives 5 miles from us).....hasn't even called him. I called him today to ask him why and his excuse is that he has "been working so much lately". Yeah, me too.....busting my *** to make ends meet so I can provide for my son--alone. I didn't realize it was an option to work INSTEAD of being a parent--I have to do both.

Answer 5

From my experience women thesedays call an "idiot" ex somebody who has been good to them, but not good enough. Kind of like owning an Porsche 911 and complaining it isnt a turbo, or even having that turbo but whishing for a McLaren. So what did your "idiot" ex do to irate you ? Said no one too many times to a shopping spree ?
EDIT: Spelling if you wanted your son to have a dad, why did you tell your husband to pack his things and go ?

EDIT: Is the guy you remarried and ex too now ? Which one are you ranting about, the father of the child you metioned or the father of one of his brother(sisters?).

Answer 6

no guilt. it isn't any longer unusual which you may sense to blame being your mom reported to no longer, and additionally it is a few thing new and it is totally awkward after your first of something. The kissing concern makes you sense issues which you have in no way felt in the past. It feels super and you'd be able to think of a few thing alongside the strains of this. That some thing that feels so advantageous would desire to be incorrect. wish this helps. you're having a classic reaction to the area. think of of the kiss and not relating to the guilt.

Answer 7

This is why it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all: You'll know never to do THAT again!

The closest thing I've ever had to an ex was a guy I was close friends with in ninth grade. We would have ended up going out if he didn't freak out so much when he learned that I liked him.

Answer 8

OMG, YES! My ex and I ahd been together for 3 years! then one day he had started not coming home and I knew there was another girl, well he kept saying no there isnt honey I love you more than anything ever, well one day his Aunt came to the house and said where is he at? I was hanging laundry, and I replied, "Oh he is at his brothers, they are lifting" well wouldnt you know his brother showed up at our house and asked me where he was at? I said, he was suppossed to be at your house, well then we all started to worry, especially when he didnt come home for a few days. then he comes home, I freak out and he said that he had stayed at a friends house for a few days cuz his van had broke down...LAME RIGHT? well I was so in love with him...(still am) so I didnt speak of it, well he had left "for work" and once again didnt come back til morning, then a woman strted calling the house, i asked for her name and she would just hang up. I started asking him again and still "no baby i love you'. We were engaged and the phone calls still kept happening, he was not coming home as much and just bullshitting me the whole time. Finally I gave up, I waited til he left for work, followed him and wouldnt you know he went to "her" house. I waited til he went inside, parked the car and knocked on her door. I said where is he? she said who, I freaked and said you f***** know who His van si outside your house I saw him go in. He come to the door with a dumb look. "Baby it's not what you think I have just been babysitting for her while she goes to work. I told him not that day he wasnt. We went home and tried to talk it out, I told him he didnt ahve to lie to me if thats "all" he was doing I would ahve been cool with it but since he lied i couldnt trust him, he apologized and so on gave me a few lines of bullshit, i love you and what not. well eventually one day he didnt come home, he had introduced her to the whole family but not me as his "new girlfriend" they were all confused seeing as he and I were engaged and I was still "part of the family" well everyone was pissed, I had no idea! so i got into a huge fight with him, and so on and so forth. him and her ahve been together for 7 months now, she hates my entire being about as much as I hate hers, she wont let me talk to him or anything, she says I dont "belong in the family" well news flash the whole family ahtes her and still like me, also she is a complete ***** and they fight all the time. He hasd called me when he is upset. I have picked him up several times cuz he said he wanted out of the relationship, but he is still with her! He asked me the toher day if I still loved him and if I would ever be his again, In my heart I know I would, because love for him goes way deep down, I ahve been with a guy for 5 months and it's just not the same. I told my ex that I was with someone and happy but, I'm jsut not that happy. I tell myself I will never take him back but in the end if the time comes...I jsut might. For as much as he has done and for the little trust that I can give I still want to try again as stupid as that sounds.