Why dont girls have any concept of cause and effect?

Question

for example, if a girl is p*ssin off a guy and the guy reaches breaking point and snaps, how come the girl reckons the guy is at fault for reacting? and also: if a girl is walking down the street wearing a skirt round her **** and her boobs are poppin out of her top, how is HE the pervert if he happens to look at her? Answers from girls please as c'mon guys, lets be honest, we don't really have a clue.

Japhson, I really like your answer, it kind of backs up the point of the question.

Mr D Wickan I can't quite work out whether you're feeling remorseful, .... or more bitter than everyone (sorry s f - i mean Some People), thinks I am. In any case you end up just coming across as an *** licker.

Sparkle, you're so cute - I honestly wish I could meet a girl like you :)

Brenda, tut tut. Trouble is, I'm a leg man.....

kclightman - I like your answer best (so far), Maybe you're right, Maybe guys (all 3 million of us, s f) DO only think there's 1 reaction to everything. Maybe between us all we've hit the nail on the head as to what the battle of the sexes is all about. However, where you're wrong is that I DO have class as well as subtlety and impecable manners. I believe thats why (some, sf) women take advantage of me. Maybe the problem is I'm mixing with girls who don't have those qualities you speak about.

steady on dtwladyhawk... I'm not ready to kill anyone just yet! But thanks for your wise and insightful answer. Its honestly appreciated. Guess me and my circle of people all need to grow up a bit.

Answer 1

Why do guys think there's only one possible reaction to anything? Jeez, don't you have any class? Subtley and maturity are the keys to good manners in awkward situations. Sounds like you could use a few lessons.

Answer 2

I am a girl/woman/mother/grandmother. I love to this day being seen. And heard. So listen to me. Nobody pisses anyone off. You are in total control of your emotions and if you aren't get help now before you do hit someone you love. What I would do if you are feeling attacked verbally is leave. Take a very long walk like to the next state. Research how many men are in prison for killing someone due to anger. Anger comes from 3 issues, pain(emotional or physical), frustration and other expectations. What you expect from a girl may not be what you get. It's your expectation based on what you have learned and seen and your own personal needs. Needs are bad. You want someone to want you not need you. As far as the girls with the poppin boobs, they want you too look but not touch. This is their way of coming of age. It's not a good way but it is a way. Besides look at all the Hollywood gals, maybe you could be a hero and tell a gal she doesn't need to do that. You just want to be with her.

Answer 3

maybe you need some self control with the girl wearing the revealing clothes, most women like to refer themselves as "forbidden fruits"

as for the girl p*ssin the guy off, well maybe she likes to push him to see how far he would go for plain entertainment. it can be funny to watch sometimes. but that girl is playing games and playing with that guys feelings

Answer 4

I am female and have excellent concept of cause and effect. I feel that this question will cause people to become annoyed and then the effect will be lots of people b*itching at you for making negative generalisations about girls.

Answer 5

you're trying to say over 3 billion people act like that? don't say 'why do girls....' you're talking about a select few people so don't try and generalise all of us.

Answer 6

That is so sexist. Us guys do the same to girls, and most of us often act so immature, that they end up looking for older guys than for guys their age.

Answer 7

Who says girls don't know what they are doing when they tease you with their low tops?

Answer 8

becauuuse.......idunno like .... just beecause hehehehe