2007-05-03 05:54:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don’t even know where to start with this one.
People do not just 'decide' to be gay.
And yes, I slept with women.
2007-05-03 05:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 11⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you meant something else other than before or after you decided to be gay. Since it ISN'T a decision, I guess that I have to answer that part by saying it would have to be BEFORE I decided to be gay. But AFTER I was made gay!
Well, it was OK I guess. I knew at the time that something was very unimpressive about it. After sleeping with men, I realized what that was!
2007-05-03 13:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tikhacoffee/MisterMoo 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
yes. I never DECIDED TO BE GAY. I had sex with a girl to see if I could shake the gay feelings. Performed great. She thought I was the "cats meow" in bed. Why? Because a beautiful young man had taught me to be a loving caring compassionate person when in bed. To Love with all my being. To think of the other person first.
Didn't work. Still had the feelings. And still do to this day.
Today I'm married for over 41 years to the same woman. Have three children and 10 grandchildren and yes great-grandchildren.
I'll never forget or stop loving that beautiful young man for teaching me how to love.
2007-05-03 13:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by Waldo 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. It was OK, but just not the same as with a man. I didn't decide I was gay, I was born gay. And it was after I FOUND out I am gay.
2007-05-03 13:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
People dont decide to be gay..thats just reality. I have slept with a few girls when I was in HS because I didnt know what I wanted more. Needless to say I opted for guys because I like them more...
Anyway it was ok and nothing to brag about.
2007-05-04 18:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by A O 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No one decides to be gay, they are or they aren't. Yes, I slept with a woman, made out with several others. It was OK but can't compare to a guy, for me.
I was on the other end of Waldo's situation: I taught several young guys how to kiss and how to be loving and considerate in bed, to their future wives' and girlfriends' great benefit!
2007-05-03 13:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have slept with one woman, my ex-wife. We were married four years and have a daughter. I knew I was gay when we got married I was just really young and did not really understand about life all that much, neither did she.
After a while I came to realization I was terribly unhappy and I came out and we divorced.
As for the sex - she enjoyed it - - for me it was forgetable!
2007-05-03 13:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was gay when I was ten years old, so I don't quite agree about the "Decided to be gay part". But at ten, I didnt know how to express it. So I lived under cover until 16. I had sex with a guy at 12, long before I ever had sex with a girl. I wish that I had had sex with a girl first. But teenaged girls back in my day were taugh to remain virgins unti marraige.
I had girlfriends at 12 & 13, but we were not having sex.
By the time I first had sex with a girlfriend when I was 16, it was too late. I had already been having sex with other male teens my age for 4 years. Sex with a girl was okay. But I'm a bottom in the gay life (meaning I prefer to be the passive one who gets screwed). I never was effeminate, but I was soft. Women found me to be "Too soft & too nice" a man by nature. I tried with women, but they always went for the more rugged guys; not the soft nice guy like me.
So I guess you can say that I found my place. As one of your male respondents said "I like sex with a man better". I agree.
I like women okay, and I sometimes see butch women that I would love to dominate me in the bed. But honey, so far "Aint nothin like a man!".
2007-05-03 14:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sam Darren 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've slept with girls and for me it was nothing to write home about. And I never "decided" to be gay. You sound bitter.
2007-05-03 16:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Never been with a woman, no desire, and I didn't decide to be gay, I just decided to come to terms with it.
2007-05-03 13:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Luis 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋