2007-05-03 04:52:56 · 63 answers · asked by grandmaster_90260 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
in the first place she shouldn't be ur gf if u don't love her.. better stop playing around with her feelings cos it will hurt her more.. i would suggest that u call her up and meet her then tell her wat u feel bout her.. communication is very important
2007-05-03 04:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by rssays 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Don't say that you love her until you really and honestly do. Lying to her especially about something like that would hurt her. Tell her you doing feel the same way that you care about her but you don't love her. I don't know who she will take it she may be upset but i know that in the long run she would rather you have told her the truth than lied and been hurt worse when she found out it wasn't true.
2007-05-03 05:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tabatha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to talk about it, then I would just tell her that while you are flattered that she feels so strongly about you, that you like to take things a little slower in the process of developing a relationship and would like to continue to spend time with her and see where it goes. Just know that if she is already at that place, the clock will be ticking on your relationship. She will expect you to either declare your love at some point or move on. She is going to want to know the relationship is going somewhere.
2007-05-03 04:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jbuns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her about what you feel. I think it is much better than being told you are loved when your not. This of course may jeopardise your relationship but if she leaves you for your honesty she is probably a very needy person that has to be told she is loved in order to feel good about herself. You would probably be better in the long run. Don't say it if you don't mean it because trust me those 3 little words mean a lot!
2007-05-03 05:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by veronica7417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you go on with your relationship the more hurt she will be when you break it off !! Terminate now!! Don't string her along that's just cruel !! She is already going to be devastated but it's better to be cruel to be kind !! If you even care about her you'll let her go as soon as possible. There is no easy way to break it to her !! She is going to want to know why !! Tell her straight out you don't love her and never will so it's time to move on !! Good Luck !!
2007-05-03 05:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Polar Molar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she tells you she loves you, tell her you deeply care about her but you care enough to be honest that those feelings are just not there yet for you.
Never lie about loving someone. It only results in a mess down the road.
2007-05-03 04:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by VivienLeigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead her on. Chances are if she's already said I love you, she's fallen for you and she's headed for heartbreak. Tell her as nicely as you can that you appreciate her thinking so highly of you. She's been a great part of your life, but you aren't headed in the same direction she is. Don't sleep with her to sum it up. That just throws confusion in the mix.
2007-05-03 04:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by justcallmeriss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you don’t love her tell her you don’t, but say it in a good term. Don’t lead this on you will regret it at the end. I would rather have some one tell me the truth than to lead me on. As a women it will only heart for a little bit. No big deal we all get over thing.
2007-05-03 05:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "well it's nice to be loved but I think we might be moving a little fast". Then decide if you want to continue with a relationship with her. Sounds like she is ready for a more serious relationship than you are.
2007-05-03 04:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by DOT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on my friend, Invite her to the place where there is full fun. Sit her down and tell her how feel about her in a nice way. Then entertaine her well and make her happy more than you always do and leave.
2007-05-03 05:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Nicefriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth how do U feel about her. No point of keeping someone "hanging"... if U know that U dont love her.
2007-05-03 05:04:29 · answer #11 · answered by Norz L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋