for teen girls to come on to a guy who's 50?! don't be calling me a perve. i've been keeping my distance,but they keep coming onto me. is it hormones? have any of you grown women gone thru such a phase? is it a father figure thing? help!
2007-05-03 04:36:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
You are smart to stay away. My son (33) was at a wedding and a girl told him was 18. She was 14. He went into the woods to go to the bathroom, she followed and then went running out yelling he tried to get her to do oral sex. The parents took it to court. He got aggravated sexual assult and now has to register with the state for 10 years. He got 90 days jail. Ruin his rep, lost his job and his kids. he is now depressed and trying to find a job.
My best advice is to ask for Id's.
Answer to your question is (I have a 17 year old daughter) that they think it is a cool thing to do or they are after money. Seriously.
Discourage and stay awya as much as possible!!!!!
2007-05-03 04:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by reneem1954_2000 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm 50 and I have a fair idea as to what it is that you are talking about. We don't look Our age (Nod Your head to 35), We are stable, articulate and have a certain authority within Our community. (Am I Getting Warm?) It is a quite common manifestation of the "Electra Complex", i.e., a young girl falling love with Her Father or a Father Figure. Most times it is just a phase some girls go through. I worked with a Doctor Our age who is married to a lass 25 years His junior. It works for Them. Personally I would be a little honored to know that I was still a 'hunk'. That is not to say that We should take advantage of these girls naivete. Have You spoken to the parents? I certainly would do so, if for no other reason than to protect the girl from having a bad emotional experience. If You are not already married, then "borrow' a Female friend your age and have her substitute as your girlfriend. Talk about the Beatles etc. and let the young lass come to the realization that you are a boring old fart, and that She needs the company of people Her own age. Good luck.
2007-05-03 05:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll say there is a distinct possiblity of a father figure thing going on if it is one girl but the way you make it sound is you are completely surrounded with these little girls who want you. Are you sure it's not an ego thing on your behalf? Some guys go through that, I think it ties into the mid-life crisis idea. I'm not saying this to be nasty, just telling you to think about it. If you really feel that it's them and not you, maybe you should contact their parents because sooner or later if you don't it could bite you in the butt.
2007-05-03 08:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dying Inside 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is hormones, raging ones! Protect yourself and don't play along. I did go through a phase like this. Young girls are feeling their power over men, and if you go along with them, you can get into a world of trouble. Girls at this age don't know enough to say "no", and find it easy to get in way over their heads. You, on the other hand, know better. You are doing the right thing by keeping your distance.
2007-05-03 05:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh you guys are really fooling yourselves.
You don't look 50?
You nod to 35.
Don't want to bust your bubble, but those girls consider you 'safe'. They figure you are too old to do anything, and they can try out their wings without your taking advantage of them because you are too old to care anymore.
Do you have any idea how old you appear to a teen aged girl?
You are ancient at 40, so past pull date that surely you need a nurse. They are so not worried.
2007-05-03 05:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is more playacting than anything else. YOung girls do like to flert a lot. Don't take it very searious. Life mostly is just fun and games for teens. I have had this myself many times and never think much of it. I do tease them some to let them know I know what is. They do have to learn how to survive in this world so let them practice.
I must admit I do like the platery. That is all it is platery.
2007-05-03 04:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you have some crazy sex appeal! like george clooney. id come onto him in a heartbeat! but im 20, so thats not a teenager.
if i were you i wouldnt date anyone younger than 30.
2007-05-03 04:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by <3 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They are not coming on to you as an adult woman would. In fact, they are just "trying out" their sexuality. They really don't know what they are doing, that's why they are used as victims so often.
Ignore it. They'll grow out of it.
How do I know? Four daughters, five granddaughters.
2007-05-03 04:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl Durham, Ph.D. 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
YES I WOULD THINK THEY ARE LACKING SOMETHING AT HOMES WITH THERE FATHERS, THAT IS MY OPINION. BUT IN ORDER FOR YOU TO BE SAFE, STAY CLEAR OF THEM LOL.... UNTIL THEY ARE OF AGE
2007-05-03 06:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by j_lynn_1973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear it's a normal stage girls go through..they test out their flirting on men they trust not to do anything about it...DO NOT .break that trust they have with you..
2007-05-03 04:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋