After marriage I had to move to other country. In my country I was a teacher. I likes my job very much. But I found my husband a good guy so at that time I gave more impotrtance to my personal life. After coming to a different country i tried to get involve in some job to keep myself busy but didn't find anything. On the otherhand husband is getting busier day by day. We planned to have baby but husband is so overwhelmed from his work we feel strees and tension and some kind of force to have baby as if we dont want it and somebody is forcing us to have baby. But in reality we want to have my own family. There is nothing to keep myself busy. I don't know how to handle things
2007-05-03 03:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Branch out in creative things and don't let a particular thought dominate you. On the day when you feel that you are ovulating, entice him to make love. You will conceive and have baby. You know that midway between your menstrual cycle you ovulate, don't you?
2007-05-05 14:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do lots of then if your hubby is all stressed out do to work then try to find ways to make him relax when he see you. life has lots of stresses like bill and claiming the corporate ladder . but you can train your mind to relax and if you have a mate like you . You can help him. when he gets home from work ask him to take a walk out side with you around the block talk ask him about his day then from them take him in to the shower with you and wash him for head to toe. then make him a nice dinner. buy the time dinner is over he will be relax to then help you make a family . this can take time so make she you do this over a month or two. Good luck..
someone that was trained will by his wife.
2007-05-03 10:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U and ur husband need to have a talk about spending time together, work is always there, life isnt...life is short and we never know when our time is going to end. If you want to start a family, go right ahead, maybe after your husband learns ur pregnant with his child, he will calm down and spend more time with you and ur new upcomming baby. Then he will have 2 people in his life to have to spend time with, and 2 people he loves. Talk to him, tell him that his work will alwys be there, tell him to slow down and take it easy.
Good Luck
2007-05-03 10:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by txladybug_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find something to keep yourself busy.you said you were teacher in your country so why dont you try for some tutions.or make a social circle,organise events,go out with friends etc.or else you can upgrade yourself by joining some course in your field or something you wanted to do but didnt have the time for do it now. you can make your hobby a way of earning money also.just think of all the things you can do in your free time.
2007-05-03 10:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by mitali2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so desperate to have a baby. u should be physically, mentally and financially ready first to welcome the new born in to ur life.
2007-05-03 10:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋