Do you get upset when your boyfriend/husband masturbates? Do you think he would be upset if you did?
2007-05-03 03:26:13 · 11 answers · asked by Kay 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
But what if they are hiding it?
2007-05-03 03:43:58 · update #1
I acutally just wrote a sex tips column on this for later in the month (I'm a sex columnist). Unless his masturbating interfers with the rest of your sex life (or vice versa), why would it upset you? We all have sex drives, and they're at different levels - sometimes I want more sexual activity than my partner does, and I'm not going to disturb them at work, or wake them up, just because I'm horny.
Plus sex with yourself is different than sex with another person - neither is better or worse, they're just different. Different types of stimulation, different types of orgasms. We know ourselves better than anyone else (even our partners), and masturbation is definately part of that process.
I, for one, would never get upset...and if I walked in and they were getting themselves off, I'd ask if I could join in! ;)
-Essin' Em, Sexpert, Hotmoviesforher.com
2007-05-03 03:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Essin Em 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger, it bothered me. I thought that it was because he wasn't happy with me sexually. I quickly learned that is not the case. Men think about sex more than we do, and it's basically a release for them to do that.
I think the only thing that upsets my husband about me masterbating is that sometimes, he doesn't get to see it. LOL.
2007-05-03 03:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by porcelina_68 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At the beginning of my marriage, I caught my husband masturbating and it made me so insecure! Even though I do masturbate...I thought he'd be excited to know, but he was angry when I told him.
2007-05-03 03:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should be bothered by this at all...all men do it..most women do it too..i think men are only bothered by women doing it when they have got a vibrator because they r worried that they might not compare to a peice of plastic..
most men have a higher sex drive than women anyway..i would only be bothered if he was doing it so much that he did not want to have sex with you x
2007-05-03 03:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women like to watch, and personally, I think it is healthy if they do. I certainly do and my bf is fine with it! Somtimes I have needs and he's not around.
2007-05-03 03:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Vida 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it gets him off my case, I was going to say back, it didn`t sound right, LOL!!
2007-05-03 03:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by lost2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope I would not be upset if he was/is.
2007-05-03 05:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't bother me.
2007-05-03 03:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would enjoy it if my girl did it in front of me.
2007-05-03 06:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... it's only natural...
2007-05-03 03:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋