me and my husband has been married for 8 yrs one day out of the blue he said he was unhappy i aske hi why he could not give me answer he said he think we need counseol i ask him what is wrong he said the whole married so i said ok a few minutes later he said counseling was not going to help because they are going to tell him what he already know. So i said to him what do we need to do. I said he didn't know so i said give me a couple of months to get on my feet and we will go from here about the marriage. But i did't wait a couple i has started to think if he is unhappy and i can't make him happy i think i neeed to go to get my mind together so i left to go visit my family back home. He call me the next day and said he made a mistake. I said ok . I went back home and he ask me what was i doing here i said to work on our marriage. I said you are going to just make this work i said i hope.So we get into because a female call the house he apoloize. But he was still mad because i was back.
2007-05-03 02:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by nina d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave agin..
2007-05-03 03:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he wants to be with you anymore, I'm sorry to say. My gut tells me he's been messing around and that he's in over his head. I really think you should leave again and not be available for him to contact until he gets his head on straight.
There's lots and lots going on here that you don't know and until he gets honest about the whole thing he's only going to hurt you more.
Stop being hurt! Good luck.
2007-05-03 10:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by boomerdude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who was the female that called the house?
its not right for someone you are suppose to have a family and life with to just out of the blue say unhappy
seems like he might be cheating
you deserve better.dont waste anymore time on a fool find someone you can share life wth and enjoy it with.
2007-05-03 10:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by redhotgermangrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds very confusing to me too....
you need to get away to get your thoughts together, if you can...i think you love him and his confusion is tearing you up...
but a female called and he got mad at you for being in the houe when he asked you to come back?
i'd take a mental break from him so he could get his head together. all of that flip-flop stuff is going to wear you down...and i would only take him back after giving him time to think, with the condition of counseling...and take my time moving back home as well..talk about emotional rollarcoaster...
i truly wish you the best...
2007-05-03 10:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is cheating......Wants to play house as well as play the role of being available. He needs to take his eye off the other woman and put them back on you, but you can't make him.....just focus on yourself and improve yourself and learn that you are Valuable and Worthy of Love.
You can't make someone else happy when you aren't happy yourself....
2007-05-03 10:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone needs to make a decision here. Either save the marriage, or end it.
2007-05-03 10:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will keep happening over and over again if you come back everytime he calls.
If you think that you can make it without him........ leave!!
I know deep down inside it hurts but you are a strong women and you can get through this!!
Weather you leave or stay.............Good Luck........Keep your Head Up High!!!!
2007-05-03 10:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-03 10:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋