Alright I have just met this guy and known him for no longer then a week, and ever since I have been running around. The first time he asked me for a favor i took his mother to the bank, to the gas station, and to Ingles just so his mom could get food and pay rent!!They live on the brink of a whole new city!! Then just yesterday I took them to the store again!!! Took him to play pool, picked up his friend, an went back to the store to pick up cotton candy for his mom. Now, yesterday the asked me for another favor, If I could help them take his sisters baby to the doctors office or DSS will come and take him. I have been run ragged, I haven't gotten a cent for gas money, and I don't want to play taxi anymore. I know I'll feel bad if I don't help them, but this is ridiculous!!! Nobody in there family drives except for there dad who works all day. Please help me!!!
2007-05-03 01:30:53 · 16 answers · asked by ~*Demented_little_me*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What the heck are you doing? STOP this immediatly as you are being used by him and the entire family. IF you continue then you have no one else to blame but yourself.
2007-05-03 01:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy you just met found someone with a good heart who he is taking advantage of. I mean this not in the mean way but, when someone finds someone to do things for them it is easy to take advantage of that friendship. If you like helping the least he could do is pay for the gas you are using in your car. Especially with the price of gas where it is. You need to speak up for yourself because no one else will. A person, such as you can be helpful to other but not to be make into a doormat tha others can walk on. STAND UP AND tell this guy how you are feeling.
2007-05-03 08:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey u shouldn't feel bad. u need to let him know how you feel and if he don't like it well he can just lump it than hey. because there is so much you can do for someone and there's too much.
if someone you are dating is going to treat you like that only a week into a relationship i doubt they will change unless afteru speak with him he will.
obviously u both need to spend some alone time with each other to get to know each other a bit better.
good luck hope it all works out for you, no matter which way you go. plenty more fish in the sea n you've only been with him for a week..
he sounds very selfish and immature. u need to find a man. in a nice way!!
***You Go Girl*****
2007-05-03 08:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they are playing on your generous nature. Don't feel bad for not wanting to be their private taxi any longer - they obviously don't feel bad using you and not paying! They must have managed before you came along so they will again. They are using you so unfortunately I think it's time to tell them "sorry, I'd love to help out but I'm too busy today/this week/forever! and besides I just can't afford it."
2007-05-03 08:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by SANDY T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump the guy and his family fast.
His requests are unreasonable with no regard for you. This after only a week. Unbelievable.
OR:
Get a taxi license and make yourself some money.
2007-05-03 08:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by the-nurse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that is the crazy thing i ever heard and you just met him...hell naw stop it asap because he is using you... if i was you i will tell him he betta take a damn bus and go on with his car hoggin self... his mother should have at least gave you gas money and DSS is not nice... so i dont want no man that has DSS at his door for missing an appointment
2007-05-03 08:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by mikiegirl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness! You have to tell him to start forking over some cash. Tell him you dont mind doing things for them that are necessaties..ie: store. doctors. But he really is taking advantage of you. You might have to stop hanging out with him altogether he sounds like someone who has a habot of doing that. I actually "broke up" with my friend for doing the same thing. Its better.. im so relieved now.
2007-05-03 08:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of it as "practicing for a taxi driver job". Does he ever put out by the way?
2007-05-03 08:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe this is actually a question. You need to drop this guy. His whole family is pathetic. Do you really want to date someone who's sister is one doctor's visit away from having her baby taken away? Does that not set off alarm bells in your head?
2007-05-03 08:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by jennypoo803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the losers to get a job and some cash and to call a taxi or thake the darn bus--you aren't their darn taxi---they are using you as a free ride/ticket
2007-05-03 08:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋