would there be a difference in doing it with your wife now that you've had an extra marital affair? would it be felt by your wife?
2007-05-03 01:15:04 · 9 answers · asked by libertine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No.....but it would be felt by you! you could never be the same with her emotionally again. You would get up everyday only to look at yourself in the mirror to know how dishonest you are. You would owe it to yourself to understand what caused it and no matter what you felt you were entittled to it was not your wife's fault. cheating is a choice and never a mistake. You threatened the relationship in more ways than just having an affair......you open the other person to std's that could harbor for years endangering someone elses life. She has now slept with everyone your affair has slept with and so on! Women are very keen on picking up emotionally with a gut feeling when they have been wronged and if you choose to remain in the marriage with her you need to be honest to her if you mean to never do it again. Eventually things have a way of coming out and she is better hearing it from you. You are not the only one that knows your secret so you are never safe.
2007-05-03 01:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he could, i doubt she would feel it, but she would notice the changes. We tend to try things different with our spouses when we are having an affair and the new person is showing us different things.
2007-05-03 01:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As men we can have sex with many women without the act of cheating effecting us. Men and women view and react to sex differently. A lot of problems arise when women project their values onto men.
2007-05-03 01:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did, he would be with my youngest sister and then come home to me and have sex.
He went out every night for a ride on his motorcycle (he whent to my sister's house ---and have sex and then come in around midnight and want sex from me.
He lied and said he only stopped by for a beer. My detective proofed differently.
2007-05-03 01:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys that are having affairs still have Some sex with their wife...and most wives dont know
2007-05-03 01:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy who cheated on me constantly and still slept with me until someone told me what he was doing then I broke up with the loser.
2007-05-03 01:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hypothetically yes...
tho she would have to totally cut me off before I would even consider going somewhere else
2007-05-03 01:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wouldn't know. never done it and hope I never get in that type of situation
2007-05-03 01:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
geewilikers
2007-05-03 01:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋