I'm not even 20 yet and so many of my friends are getting married (who are younger than me)!!!! I enjoy being single but its starting to drive me crazy seeing everyone "oh so happy". Am I the only one who has this happening and think its the biggest mistake of their lives. It's obvious most of them are not going to last!
2007-05-02 20:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by thatonegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you are not alone. I was married and divorced by the age of 21. You are right, they are making a mistake (or not), we don't really know. But these days marriages don't last like they use to. Divorce is too commone now. In a couple of years, your friends that you see are OH so happy will be envying you, trust me. When I got divorced and stayed single for some time, my friends were green with envy on the new found freedom I had and the care free attitude, I was in my glory.
2007-05-02 21:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's fine for you to be single. Do what you enjoy, but be there for your friends when they fall. However, it's not a good idea for you to think it's a mistake for them. They're doing what they feel is right, and who are you to judge?
If you feel left out, try starting a regular girl's night every month (or two weeks if you all decide it's ok). No guys, no kids, no worries. Go bowling, to the clubs (if there are any good ones) or to the movies. Do girly things that you all enjoy together. Make sure their husbands know that the only time to call is if it's an emergency.
This will keep you connected with the girls and at the same time will help improve their home life (if we married people don't get away from our significant other every so often we go crazy!).
Good luck and hope everything works out =D
2007-05-03 03:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all subjective. If you like the single life, live it up. Some people don't like being tied down because they like dating in general. Some people hate it and find comfort in being "tied down" with somebody they love. Some advice for you though is not to judge your friends, especially in front of them. Believe me, you do not want to be the spark that lead to their divorce lol. Anyways, do what makes you happy. Most women these days don't get married until their late 20's.
2007-05-03 03:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Delta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right none of them will be married 3 years from now.How
can they even no what love is,puppy love so many young people get married when it is only puppy love.I for one did it to.I got married at 18 divorce at22 got married again at 22 and divorced again at 27 got married again at 27 been married every sense then to my third husband 28 years now.
2007-05-03 03:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so young...
people do stupid things, & it turns out 'experiences' so if you find somebody to marry & both of you know you might get divorced faster than you got married..just for the wedding & whatever you are hurrying to have..then well..
I mean if you asking this now, then you might keep on it & be stuck in the mind so be done with it..in Vegas maybe?
2007-05-03 03:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by layla c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah~
ALWAYS LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE-
it's the best thing you can have in the world....FREEDOM!
you can like breakfree..and just do what ever you want...
there is nobody to stop you form doing the things u like.
it's like.. you can ENJOY you life... and you know.... like spread your wings and soar!
it's like a way u can EXPLORE and LEARN about urself more. it's FUN!
3 CHEERS to all the HAPPY SINGLES of the world!
hey, gal..don't worry~ your prince charmin' will come to u one day... Good Luck!
2007-05-03 04:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep single hon,your only young have fun,your time will come xxx
2007-05-03 03:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋