HI everyone, recently I have had a problem and have no idea what to do...I'm in a current relation ship and I had a friend who I happen to like very much and get along as wel.... Now recently this new person is already aware that I'm in a long term relationship.....So recently he had asked me out to a coffee and talk bout stuff and catch up on all the stuff each of us had got up to....When he asked me to coffee I said fine no probs "there is no problem in going out with a mate" but then he droped the bombshell of saying after the coffee how bout we go to a motel.....So After that I did not talk to the guy at all and now I miss the company but I am still very pissed off with him
So if someone could please suggest me what to do....Should I talk to him or never.......
PLEASE HELP
2007-05-02 19:41:26 · 7 answers · asked by shazdeblitz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he should have more respect for you relationship, if he was really your friend then he would not have overstepped his boundaries in the friendship by even asking you to go to a hotel to have sex, friends dont do that and he was only looking out for his own selfish interest, find some new friends who arent looking to use you in anyway....
2007-05-06 11:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all learn it that the boy knows about your relationships and you are just making a big deal that he asked you to go in a motel it is just normal because ever man want to make love with beloved and then what is wrong when you said no he did not force you in other words a man can ask to make love no a (hizar,khusra) so he is a nice guy keep on your love
2007-05-02 19:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by j pal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk that just wants a piece of a**! Leave him alone, he is up to no good. You will end up losing the relationship that you have. You should not be going anywhere with a man that disrespects you like that!!
2007-05-02 19:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should respect you and your relationship.. He sounds cocky? He's probably not that great of a guy, not interested in you as a friend but as more and not even in a sweet romantic way, just a sleazy way. Don't talk to him!
2007-05-02 19:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by regina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he was really there for you. I think he was there for the sex. But hey I could be wrong. He came on a little strong . You know what I mean? I think you should pay more attention to your man and don't let this one mess things up.
2007-05-02 19:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nine times out of ten when someone asks this question the answer is no definitely not, and you are no exception. They guy is jerk, and you don't need him. Lose his number.
2007-05-02 19:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance to apologise and if he dosen't than you might want to consider wether or not you want a friendship with him.
2007-05-02 20:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋