2007-05-02 18:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Social anxiety, agoraphobia, weirdness, Michael Jackson.
2007-05-02 18:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is about connection, networking, caring generally of those around you. Don't live in lonliness. Find a friend who you can sit on the porch with, sip on some tea, and talk for hours with. Share your feelings with someone you care about. You can't keep holding in your feelings which are good and bad.
In the long run, you keep restricting or depriving yourself of the friendship or love from others that you will end up building walls so no one will understand you. Let that wall down.
Over dinner with a mutual friend, I met a guy who is a pharmacist. His name was Chan. He was very bookish-looking, but other than that, he looked quite normal.
During the middle of dinner, a couple approached us and ask if the pharmacist guy had a problem. We said, "There's no problem. Why?"
The guy points at the Chan. "Well this guy keeps giving us the middle finger."
Chan kept mumbling something and saying 'what , what' to the couple. Then my friend just apologized on Chan's behalf, later stepping outside to talk to the couple to excuse his behavior.
Throughout the rest of the dinner I would glance over to Chan and see that he had another internal battle with a stranger from across the room. He said the girl kept staring at him, so he just kept giving her the finger, too.
I had enough and moved to block his view of her. Chan kept repeating that he didn't like the place and that he wanted to go.
My friend explained that though Chan is a smart guy, he is very anti-social and cannot handle going out with friends.
My point of this story is that Chan must have been lonely for so long that he has made the world up to be a negative place in which he doesn't belong. He thinks the world is against him.
I think all he needs is a good friend, or a girlfriend. Maybe he needs to get laid, too, as me and my friend had joked about. Because he is 35 and still a virgin.
DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR LONELINESS. People everywhere are different, or even weird. But they aren't alone. Everybody needs somebody they can trust.
Good luck.
2007-05-02 19:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy is a social animal. Sorry for the cliche, yet that's what got here first in my innovations. concerning Isolation, you already know, its in basic terms no longer the comparable with one and all. it is diverse for various people. It additionally relies upon on what situations one is remoted. the two via tension, or via will. returned, has the guy consistently been a loner? If no longer, it could have drastic effects on a exceptionally sociable guy or woman to adventure long term loneliness. It additionally relies upon on what degree of isolation. Is a guy or woman locked in a room without humanly touch? Is a guy or woman residing/living in a lonely hut on an deserted section? psychological effects will variety from acute melancholy to paranoia. you may examine it up on the internet. additionally, the guy ought to strengthen severe schizoid complications, which contain illusions or schizophrenia. My psych professor as quickly as reported that a human is in basic terms human, because of fact of alternative people.
2016-12-28 08:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by lisk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to nonsense. It will immediately repair itself just as soon as you find someone. The trick is to keep yourself from becoming severely depressed until that happens. Best way is to keep yourself occupied doing positive things such as; work, hobbies, sports, art, hanging out with friends, etc.
2007-05-02 18:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could become severly depressed. I would hope that instead of becoming that way you will try and meet someone even if it is for a friendship for right now and who knows it may blossom into soemthing more
2007-05-02 18:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the worst is feeling suicidal. That and the feeling of being pathetic and hopeless. Losing your self-esteem ...you know..all the crappy stuff.
2007-05-02 18:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at least you have us on yahoo answers,some people choose to be lonely this way,if they have been hurt in the past or for what ever reason,but we all still have each other
2007-05-02 18:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by CARL P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will not have a full life. but some people are made to be a hermit..so more power too you if that is what you like..not everyone is a social butterfly...
2007-05-02 18:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right arm will become super developed at that point you can take up arm wrestling to meet people.
2007-05-02 18:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by otis spunkmeyer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋