her dad? He will get so angry if I don't. Still my choice right?
2007-05-02 18:20:21 · 13 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would because that would show her your the bigger person.and make you feel better.but yes its your choice at the end of the day i would think about it first.
2007-05-02 18:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me ask you this
would you want your daughter to send you a card if you guys were fighting??
I mean if anything ever happend to where you were having a hard time with your kids when you have some and they didn't send you a mother's day card or birthday card?
Maybe sending her one will make her relize what a wonerful daughter you are and she will come around
if not that is yout choice no one can make that choice for you
good luck
2007-05-02 19:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. It doesn't have to be a really sentimental card. Just something that says Happy Mother's Day, I love you. Which I'm sure you do.
2007-05-02 18:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should only send her a card if you choose to do so. And I don't see why your grandfather (if I am reading this right) should get mad as he is raising you and she isn't.
I would get him a card, like a thank you or something, for being there for you when you need him.
2007-05-02 18:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by slpkwp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will create less stress on you and others if you just find a generic card and give it to her. It doesn't have to say much of anything and then you aren't in trouble with anyone. You might be upset in having to "play the game," but in the long run it takes much less energy to walk the high ground.
2007-05-02 18:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by chequamegon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice, yes, but put your foot in her shoes. She was the one that brought you into this world -- you owe her "at least" a card to acknowledge that fact. She deserves that one iota of respect no matter how cruel and unjust she was to you when growing up or even more recently (picture the cruel stepmother of Cinderella). Remember, people can change their behavior, but they can't change who they are & where they came from.
2007-05-02 18:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT EVER REASON YOU HAVE FOR LIVING WITH HER DAD IS NOT IMPORTANDT AT LESS NOT TO GOD SHOW HER A LIL GRACE AND SEND THE CARD IT IS YOUR CHOICE BUT BE THE BETTER PERSON SOME MOMS JUST HAVE PROMBLES AND ITS NOT CAUSE THEY DONT CARE ABOUT THIER KIDS ITS BC THEY HAVE TROULBES WITH LIFE IT SELF SO MAYB YOUR CARD WILL GIVE HER A REASON TO THINK EVEN IF SHE IS SELFISH YOU DONT B THAT WHY YOU DONT WANT TO B LIKE HER SHOW THE KIND OF LOVE THAT COMES FROM GOD ABOVE AND SEND A LIL CARD YOU WILL FILL BETTER IF YOU DO
2007-05-02 18:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send her a generic card...You will feel better then.
My father was the same way for many years...after he divorced my mom. I still sent him a fathers day card and birthday card every year.
2007-05-02 18:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Christie E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on what you mean by ignoring? dont you have any contact with your mom? If you do...you could send a greeting card reminding her that she's a mom. be kind.
it will make you feel good too.
2007-05-02 18:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still your choice. It is hard to fathom someone holding a grudge against his/her mother.
2007-05-02 18:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send it to her anyway. You only have one mother whether she was good, bad, or indifferent. Just send it.
2007-05-02 19:42:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋