can i have words of encouragement? im kinda stressed about the future.?

Question

ladies how about a hug? i've been so worried about school, and work, then family is becoming very strained; i have become single, and i dont like being single..... its like im falling apart faster than i can duck-tape myself back together. and on top of that, im working a job, and it is taking up a lot more time than i would like(cause it is detracting from school/family). and now i just learned i will be pouring concrete on saturday. and i am so stressed (especially since it is a hours drive away--and im allready having a hard time coping with the amount of money gas costs, and it seems i just cant cut down on my driving--cause i drive to work)

encouragment, advise, inspiration wanted. but please no overly agressive editorials--not to be confused with just plain advise.

i cant quit the one job, cause it pays the best, and is the closest....

Answer 1

Is there a co-worker you can carpool with? Chances are if gas costs are hurting you, they're hurting someone else too. Find out if you can share that cost with someone.
Family problems suck. Trust me I know. The best thing you can do is try to stay neutral and refuse to get involved in arguements between family members because sooner or later they always stop arguing and you don't want either party to resent you if they think you stuck up for the other. If anyone comes to you with a famliy problem tell them you love them and you're sorry they're having this issue, but you love your other family members too and need to stay out of it. Set aside an hour or two a night to go over your schoolwork or check and see if there's any study groups you could join and don't sweat the being single thing. Give it a try for a while and you might like it. If not, someone better will turn up if you wait for her. We all have times in our lives like this. Keep your chin up. You seem like a very nice guy.

Answer 2

Awww, I'm sorry you're having such a hard time! You know, bad times in your life do NOT last forever, and this one will pass, too. Sometimes when a number of things are going wrong in our lives, we just feel overwhelmed,and that seems to be how you are feeling right now. I wish I had some good advice that would take your stress away, but I sure don't. Just live your life wisely and do the right things, and this too shall pass.

Answer 3

Give it time. In my experience, the transitional stage is a bit of a social wasteland. You're clearly a lot more confident than I was, though. I avoided phones like the plague until I was sure that I would pass. If you are only looking for a friend, why should you tell them up front that you are transsexual? Sure, I agree, that it is necessary to be open about it if you are looking for a date. In your question it is not clear exactly what it is that you seek. In any case, you seem like a decent chap. I'd hang out with you.

Answer 4

Take a deep breath in....let it out slowly. I'm sorry to hear that life is taking it's toll on you right now. That is never something fun to experience. Please, for yourself and your family, keep your chin up and tell yourself that everything is going to be alright. No, it's not going to be ok in an hour or a day, but rather in due time.

*Big HUG* Don't forget to smile.

Answer 5

After re reading your question, I just got very depressed.

Answer 6

awww.. that sucks. life is never easy. hope it all works out for the best.

Answer 7

((((((hugs)))))
recently single myself,job sux,and so do gas prices....
good luck...things will work out.....it just seems like it takes forever...

Answer 8

feel better soon

Answer 9

((hugs))

it will pass