good women reply and army wives reply please.
2007-05-02 15:20:39 · 22 answers · asked by sharaun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO
dont cheat!
it makes YOU as bad as HER
you get divorced!!
2007-05-02 15:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey buddy, get your head up!! You need to divorce her because that's the only admirable thing you can do as a military man. Why should you blow it and face possible adultery charges over her b.s.? You deserve better, and need to get some counseling and a good divorce attorney. This should be pretty simple if you are still in the military. If you stay with her she will just think she has a license to do whatever she wants to you, and get away with it. Put your foot down and as hard as it is, do the right thing - I know you know what that is. I don't have a military husband, but my husband travels all over the country for extended amounts of time as needed for work. I have never ever thought about cheating - even when I feel alone and mad about it. If she couldn't respect you then, she never will. You deserve to be happy, and I am sure there are thousands of women trying to find someone like you.
2007-05-02 15:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the intimacy involving your minds, heart, emotions and spirits are depleted. The excuse of you being away for awhile is not an excuse. The bond that you both should have between each other wouldn't make a different how long you were gone away she should be with you mentally, emotionally and spiritually awaiting your return.
Your comtemplating of doing the exact same thing is no consulation to resolving your issues with your wife. There's no respect, trust, love and no committment towards you from her if she has cheated numerous times it's high percent that she'll do it again.
I would seriously consider getting a divorce from her unless she proves to you beyond a reasonable doubt that she has stop cheating. God Bless
2007-05-02 16:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that you need to leave her and find a girl that loves you, and only you. Once a cheater...always a cheater....there is NO exception. You deserve better. I love my husband with all of my heart. Just because he would go away for a few months or even a year doesn't mean that I would cheat on him. My goodness! I don't know what people are thinking sometimes. They always think that the grass is always greener on the other side.
2007-05-02 15:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by JLB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that ,that makes her a w hore and the men she was with scum because they had no business being with a married woman whose husband was serving his country! that said 2 wrongs dont make a right.just get a divorce and move on-you deserve so much better.life is worth living dont waste yours on a w hore who doesnt love or respect you!and dont marry another woman too quickly give yourself some time to get over the anger and hurt just have fun and be careful.when you find the right one you will know.please dont be like my son and marry the first thing you tie up with.welcome home soldier! good luck.
2007-05-02 15:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's terrible. No you should not cheat, you should figure out if it's worth it to go on in the marriage or not before you start dragging other women into it. That will make you no better than she is, and cause heartache for the other woman, and revenge won't cure what's wrong with your marriage.
BTW thanks for your service. It's not an easy time to be in.
2007-05-02 15:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to lower yourself to her standards? I tell ya what, if I was dating a man who's wife cheated on him, and I found out he did it to her just to get her back, I wouldn't really be all that interested in him, on a moral level, I've have my doubts about him. It's better to just leave with your integrity in tact, and the best revenge is to live a good life with somebody that really loves and respects you and is true to you in all ways.
2007-05-02 15:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that, but no. i wouldnt think you should. ever heard of two wrongs dont make a right?.... shes your wife. you married each other for better or for worse.... try to work it out and just see what happens from there... im not married or anything but i do have a bf who just got back from iraq two months ago...
2007-05-02 15:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Vachik21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don"t cheat. Either work it out or leave her. I was in your shoes a few years ago. But if you leave her get a good lawyer & don't give the cheatin' ***** a thing.
2007-05-02 15:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by ROSE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. never let yourself feel like you have to lower yourself to someones level, maintain and go find a woman and you will who appreciates the sacrafices you have and will make in life. Divorce her !
2007-05-02 15:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋