ok well in my little clique were are the popular friendly athletic group below the super popular. anyways there is this one girl and she is like one clique below me and she is in my play. she is really nice and we hang out and shes my friend. my friends dont seem to mind it but im starting to think about my crush. does this ruin my chance a little because i talk to her. now im not gonna ditch her. i talk to her on my over over to play practice and back and we say hi in the halls. we talk sometimes on the phone too. so this isnt wrong because she is in a lower clique then i am right.
2007-05-02 15:11:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Hun...
You shouldn't pick your friends becuase of how popular someone is or what clique they are in. If you like this girl and you want to be her friend, then it's your right to do so. There are several people that make good friends and will be there for you, even if they are not as popular.
When I was younger, I had friends that were rich and I had some that were not rich. I had some that were popular and some that weren't. But reguardless, they were still my friends. I didn't ditch one because they weren't as popular as the others. You have the right to be friends with whoever you chose. Don't let anyone tell you differently. A true friend will be there for you when everyone else lets you down.
If this girl is fun to talk to and cool to hang out with, then be her friend. If your "popular" friends don't understand this, then you should think about who is relly your friend. Good luck in your situation. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-05-02 15:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by rebel_cowgirl78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Just because the clique is lower doesn't mean your not allowed to hang out with her. Nothing like a clique makes her any less of a person and if you like her than it's all good.
2007-05-02 22:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by dancing tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this used to happen to me too. when my friends saw me hanging out with a girl "below" us, i would pretend it was just for a project or something so my friends wouldn't think less of me. i've learned i was a self centered b**ch. so yea.. i don't do that anymore. its not nice, moral, or cool, no matter what you may think. it hurts people, and that's worse than seeming "less cool" in front of others, even if its your crush. theres absolutely nothing wrong with befriending people from different cliques. everyone likes people who befriend a variety of people, not only their own kind, if you know what i mean. lol
good luck, girl!!
2007-05-02 22:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by cabanacutie022 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a thorough waking up to yourself. First you need to get a nice bucket of ice cold water then dump it on yourself. Now while you are shivering cold realise that all humans are the same and regardless of how they act or appear they are very human inside.
Also generally speaking the ones that act perfect are in reality quite the opposite. So if you can find a real friend like this then grab it. If your crush thinks less of you because of it then he isnt worth chasing after.
Good luck tho
2007-05-02 22:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly no offense but you sound really self centered I think you shouldnt care
2007-05-02 22:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋