I HATE EVERYTHING...I Just Need Your Help? Please Be Kind And Answerr?

Question

Okay, well you may think im just an average teen. Well I am not.
I am not gonna do anything drastic. I dont think I can say I am depressed, but I am just really say and have been for like a couple weeks now.

I am NOT pretty and I hate it cause I either want to be an actress or model. But I am not prettty. My friends tell me I am but I cant see it in there eyes, they are lying.

My parents are constantly getting mad at me and saying I have an "attitude" when I dont.

I feel so lonely. My friends dont even want to talk to me...
I am just a friend. nothing more, nothing less. They dont treat me like a best friend. They ditch me and stuff and I dont like it...

Everything is going wrong. Nobody even cares or notices me, its like I belnd in with the background...its like I am invisible...

What should I do?
DO NOT give me something stupid or lamee or superficial.

I dont know why, but everything I do, I still feel sad inside
Nothing I do makes me happy...

Please, help!

Answer 1

What you're feeling is pretty common for teenagers. I'm not trying to belittle your feelings, but I'm sure that you are seeing it as worse than it is. I went through a period like that too, where everything was bad, and my life just plain sucked. Looking back on it even just a few months later it wasn't as bad as I'd felt at the time.

All I can suggest that you do is find those little things that still make you happy, or at least content. Spend some extra time with that and try not to build up expectations for yourself. You'll get through this, it is temporary.

And don't give up you dreams of acting or modelling. Many women don't feel pretty. Salma Hayek grew up thinking she was ugly, now she's thought of as gorgeous, so don't give up.

the attitude your parents are complaining about may simply be they are not quite keeping up with the changes you're going through, don't worry too much about it.

Good luck to you, and have some fun along the way.

Answer 2

I went through this a long time ago ( I am about to turn 13) and let me tell you, I still dont know what was wrong with me! I hated everything, and everyone. They just all bothered me, any little thing that someone did drove me crazy. I think it was not the present that was bothering me, it was my past. Just people and things that had been left unsolved, I would reccomend getting back in touch with some old friends, or family that you used to be really close to. No promaises, but it worked for me.
Good Luck, Jolean

Answer 3

it happens a lot in different stages of our life, so is normal that sometimes people around us dont act the way we expect, but then there is a ligth, have you thougth about learning something new, you say you are not an average teen, you know an extra curricular activity, another language perhaps, that would keep your mind busy and you migth focus on something new,
Parents always want what is best for you, so be patient and try at least to talk to your mom and get closer to her, she went through your age and she Knows about those changes people experience while being a teenager.
You are not along you could pray to God for changes
Believe in yourself, do something good for others and treat them like you would want to be treated, everything you feel is inside of you, you need to talk to someone you can trust that could give you good advice, just try to take it easy, friends come and go and people change, youll find out as you grow
and the last thing i am saying is that everything that is really beatifull is inside your heart, your feelings, the way you treat others and how much you grow inside of you, be a better person and concentrate on your self you are your best friend and if you dont love you, nobody is going to... so work on that

dont forget you are not alone God is watching over you, pray and hell listen and anwer your praires...

Take care, and GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Talk to someone and soon. You probably are depressed. If you can pull your mom or dad to the side and let them know how you are feeling. Tell them you are sorry if you appear to have an attitude, let them know you don't mean to it's just that you're sad and don't know how to deal with it. Or pull them to the computer and let them read this you are crying out for help which is a good thing you've taken a step and now you need to take another one and let your parents or maybe even a school counselor know so they can help you. Good luck to you things will get better. :)

Answer 5

I do truly think you are pretty and I dont lie. I always tell the truth even if it is mean and everyone knows that. I do think you could be a model one day if you worked on your facial expressions because you kinda pop your eyes out.

All kids have attitudes so ignore them.

I do talk to you lots. I think you might be talking about Madi or someone. I do wanna treat you like a best friend but I dont wanna weird you out. I do like you and I love you as my friend.

Ignore everyone and tell them they suck more often.

Just try to make everyone notice you more and care more. Tell people that they are mean and are hurting your feelings. Tell everyone how you feel and what you want them to do. Dont be mean about it or bossy.

All kids our age feel this way ALWAYS...I have felt like this for SOO long. I hope this helps.

GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

If you can think of 5 things to get you thorough the day (get an A on the test, go for a walk on the side walk, phone a friend, write a letter, buy an ice cream what ever) you can beat that dark cloud that won't leave you alone. and once you know you can beat that dark cloud you will be stronger than before.

Answer 7

I can relate to this because I had simular problems as a teen myself. I was a loner and still am because I do not stand out in a crowd. Peole have a way of shoving certain people aside and ignoring them just becaus they are different. In my case after I graduated form high school I left the city behind that I grew up in and found a better class of people and was able to see my dreams come to pass. Ultimately you are the one who has to work toward your goals to see them fulfilled. Mine was to be a musician performing on stage with a band and I had to work hard to get there and I made it. Set the people aside who hinder your progress.

Answer 8

Welcome to the teen years---hormones change, your life is changing---millions of kids go through this---your mom did too but she doesn't remember. All teens have the changes--physically and mentally you are adjusting to adulthood---only the beginning is rough around the edges--in a year or two you will be all settled in and ready to move on in life----until then, your friends, family, school, emotions, --everything will seem different---so you can only let time pass and you will be OK---I promise. Like a moth that changes into a butterfly. Relax, smile, good luck

Answer 9

OK, u r a teenager, most teenagers feel depressed, its hormones, i was one of dem. i would say to you, if u don't like u, how can u expect others to like you. also if your parents say you have an attitude....its most likely you do. Try standing in front of the mirror and say nice things to yourself. tell your self you love you...do this everyday. Try to stop thinking negatively. If you think....."everything is going wrong" well then in turn everything will go wrong. Your thoughts and your feelings create your life. so try to smile...even if you feel sad....look at funny movies...read funny stories....but just stop the sadness. if you want to send me a pic...i tell you what i think. If you are pretty, but feeling ugly inside, well that is how people will perceive you. so you have to be both...pretty inside and out. Love peace and joy

Answer 10

Woopy Goldberg made her name but she is ugly. I love all her movies even The telephone. You can't get bored watching her all alone in th whole movie. Cute ugly lady.
You hide yourself that's why nobody sees or notices you. Maybe send me your picture let me evaluate your ugliness.