my ex was cheating on me for a bit now 2 weeks later her new boyfriend has sent me pics of the 2 of them together so i want to put them on the net for revenge i no it may seem sad to you lot it does to me too but its the only thing i can really do to get my own back
2007-05-02 14:27:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You already put in enough wasted time into this relationship, that you can't get back. Why give them the satisfaction of wasting anymore time by paying any attention to what is going on in their lives.
Forget it and move on. The healing process will not begin until you let go.
See this as a learning experience, protect and prepare yourself for your next love of your life. This is a testimony. Think of about the pain that Jesus suffered for the ones he loves.
When your heart is involve there is going to be some pain. It's what you do with that pain and how you carry it, that will determine if you grow from it.
Love/forgiveness weights easier on the heart than Hate/revenge.
If you don't believe in what I'm saying believe what comes around goes around.
We reap what we sow.
Let someone Take your revenge, it will come back to them.
Stay strong and keep loving.
2007-05-02 14:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy that your ex was cheating on you with sent pictures of them together?
Sorry to hear that Ian.
Don't go the way of revenge though. Why? Because it totally feeds their egos. Obviously if the guy's up to sending you pics, he wants to disturb you. Why let him have that power?
Seriously. Just let the two get on with their trashy lives and consider it a blessing that this woman was cut from your life.
Anyway, their relationship will likely not last. Cheaters tend to cheat. On the other hand, loyal guys are like gold to some of the best women in the world.
Revenge is not the answer. There are many alternatives to dealing with a harsh situation like that. How about trying meditation, or something purifying like that?
2007-05-02 14:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a revenge site for women somewhere, I think men should be above that kind of petty stuff.
The best thing you can do is find another woman and move on.
2007-05-02 14:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by joe b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ian ,I wouldn't bother, It would probably make them both feel too good! Just send them back reply paid and the'yll have to pick up the fee! The best revenge is to get on with life, find yourself a worthy partner and forget them!
2007-05-02 14:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best Thing you can do is move on. Nobody is worth your pain. You know she did you the biggest favor. Right now you might not see that, but trust me this will make you happy later. Look at it like this she made room for your one true love. There is someone for everyone.Look at the positive side there are more single woman than men, so just dive in and embrace life. ~best wishes~
2007-05-02 14:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-02 14:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are setting yourself up to be sued. Living well is the best revenge. Move on, ignore them, and block their emails.
2007-05-02 14:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care just go out & find a new girl that wasn't good enough for you.
2007-05-02 14:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by f.binphilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 02:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by peachinahat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling to thier level is just diminishing you.
2007-05-02 14:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋