My life:
-I'm a 19 year old Canadian girl
-I've only ever kissed one boy, who turned out to be an asshole and started ignoring me. Never had a boyfriend.
-I don't have any close friends anymore, since they all like to go out to bars on the weekends and I have refused their offers to join them multiple times. They gave up asking.
-Everyday I think I have a disease. ex. breast cancer, a brain tumor.
-my grades SUCK. I go to every class, do the exams, write the papers but never seem to read the textbook and evidently practically fail the class
-I'm overweight
Help! What direction do you see my life going in? I try not to feel sorry for myself since there's still a lot of positives in my life, but I really just get upset a lot thinking about all this.
2007-05-02 14:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by kellz8706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are any type of Christian or have any type of religious background; you would understand that God doesn't plan your life like you are reading a story. You need to use the life that God has given you and make something of yourself.
2007-05-02 14:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your only 19. Iknow that is hard to hear but sometimes in life what we are going to be or do in life we dont find out until much much later. All I can suggest to you is that you write down what YOU want out of life and set yourself goals. If you are unhappy at your weight then once a day go for a walk. If you are unhappy with your grades go speak to your teachers and do more work. Have something to aim for. At 19 even if you did have a boyfriend the odds that he will be the right one for you is slim. You need to get some self esteem and live your life that you have now.
Good luck and remember that just because things look crappy right now doesn't mean they will look crappy in a years time.
2007-05-02 14:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha! You sound just like me. Only i'm 20 yrs. Paranoid about everything. In a bad relationship with my bf (i even worry i'm going to get pregnant even though i'm a "virgin"). Crazy huh?
I'm failing all my classes at the moment, seem to be in the same situation you are in. Seriously. What has come of my life!!?
I would say, most importantly, pray about it. Also, i don't know if you go to church. If you do, i recommend finding a group of Godly friends...is amazing how important friends are when you're going through difficult times. And try to stay busy. The busier you are the less time you have to think about things (its the thinking that usually gets me in trouble.)
Anyway, whatever you decide to do, I wish you the best of luck!! I hope everything works out for you!
2007-05-02 18:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch your diet, study hard, make friends with people you have things in common with, do not do anything against your inner self, try to relax because your life is only beginning... Try to see the so many reasons you have to be happy and live by these facts.
2007-05-02 14:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by zeca do trombone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For this you need to go to some church service...
God does have a plan for you...
Right now, it isn't clear, but one day it will be.
We are all clay waiting to be shaped...
you'll be fine. Just work on your school work.
2007-05-02 14:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by oldpeoplesuckateverything 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you Just have a self asteem issue which causes this.I would advise to move and get a new start.LEave that behind.
2007-05-02 14:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell.
Relax, it will come
2007-05-02 14:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋