I am married, but fallen for another girl, what should i do!?

Answer 1

Take your wife out for dinner and forget the other person. You took vows, now you need to honor them

Answer 2

Kick yourself in the A**! Okay in all seriousness you need to back away and take a real hard look at yourself. How do you feel about your wife? How do you feel about this other girl? Try to see beyond sex or looks and imagine what your life will be like with this person. If you realy want to be with this other person then be honest with your wife. She's going to be hurt, she's going to be angry and cry but she deserves the truth and she deserves to be with someone who loves her and can be faithful to her. Be ready to do the right thing either way and don't mess up anyone else's life anymore than you already have. Good luck

Answer 3

Thsi is about time to harden yourself up and give this girl up, unless you dont like your wife , which is an entirely different story. But if you do, dont give up on her and be strong and you will always be strong , if you face a similar situation next time (you will know you can do it). Leaving someone for someone else is the biggest insult you can cause and no one will ever respect you for it, may be not even the new woman at a later stage. A life without respect is no life at all- its just existence. Good luck mate.

Answer 4

Here's my theory: whatever pattern you have with your wife, you will have with all partners. That is, if you get tired of being with your wife after 2 years (for example), then you would get tired after this other girl after 2 years also.

So unless you want to do the serial monogomy thing with a dozen or so ladies for the rest of your life, be mature and stay with the one you're married to. There are obviously reasons that you felt compeled to marry her. Hold those close to your heart and enjoy creating and sharing memories with your wife for years to come.

Answer 5

you ahould ask yourself if this girl you have fallen for is worth throwing away your marriage. But if you decide you want to be with the other woman, then make yourself happy, just don't be harsh about it. Tell her what you think and feel.

Answer 6

if your wife wants you at all , then make it work. You have no
history with this other girl (you did say girl not lady!) What's to say this"girl" won't leave you for another married man?
Better wake up before it's to late

Answer 7

i bet your wife is a lonely woman... you shouldnt have let it get to this. you made vows, and we trust those vows when we say i do. i know youre human but i think you should walk away quickly from that, and put some hard work and love into your marraige. that girl you married is in there somewhere.

Answer 8

well first off, decide if its really a deep attraction or if you just want to be on her. because chances are, you are really in love with your wife, you just are attracted to the physical features of others.
stop talking/texting/calling/all contact with this girl, or it could lead to the end of your marriage.
BUT, if you are REALLY sure that this is what you want, then you should get a divorce, because it's not fair to be in a relationship with someone that you don't love, it ends up hurting both involved.

Answer 9

Imagine your wife cheating on you. If you can't stand that, then don't get in a relationship with someone else. If you can, then you should be questioning how to improve your marriage, not whether or not you should be cheating.

Answer 10

Push the button on your life call and let someone pick you up. Give marriage a chance.