Oddly enough, we find out the negative qualities AFTER we get married! =D
When I was dating my husband, he always dressed beautifully...very professional...very handsome! His hair was neat, his beard trimmed, smelled good...umm. I fell head over heels in love!
His apartment was very simple...modern, plain. There was NO FOOD in the refrigerator...so no messy dishes!
After about a year of marriage and we had settled into our condo, I noticed a build up of "techie" stuff....computers, gadgets, endless wires and odd and ends. At night, our house looked like the inside of a spacecraft...lights blinking everywhere!!
It has changed some now, but piles of his CLEAN clothes from the drycleaner would be discarded on the floor & exercise equipment! He would try something on...change his mind...and toss it! Guess who was expected to pick up after him!!!
I started dumping things in baskets...tired of being a cleaning lady. He couldn't find anything and has gotten somewhat better in ten years. We still have discussions around neatness.
He is a wonderful guy...I must say. He is not a 'womanizer'..faithful, true blue, and works very hard at his job.
I think when we are dating LOVE fills us to the top! This is why women fall for complete jerks...they are blinded by love. It happens all the time.
I was lucky...my guy is not a neat freak, but he is honest and has a good heart!
2007-05-02 12:16:41
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answered by Eve 4
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Who looks for negative qualities? Raise your standards
2007-05-02 11:53:01
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answered by jdnsmama13 4
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Arrogance and brutal honesty but I don't think these are negative qualities. Others seem to think so but then there are qualities I think I have which are perfectly delightful and others find negative.
To each their own.
2007-05-02 11:55:30
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answered by Satia 4
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well I can't say I look for them at first but when I think about my future with a woman I look at her negative qualities and try to decide if I can overlook them for the rest of my life.
2007-05-02 12:25:33
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answered by akjacefinch 2
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This is a really funny question,
Opinionated but not to an extreme just a little bit annoying.
Simi-Selfconcious, not to the point of being on the verge of anorexia if I look at her like she's fat.
Those are the only two that I can really think of.
2007-05-02 11:56:37
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answered by Thendens 3
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first of all who seeks negative qualities? if the question is what are some negative qualities of the opposite sex, then that includes ignorance, selfishness, laziness, and unintelligence.
2007-05-02 11:59:37
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't look for any. That's kind of counter productive. The negatives, unfortunately, will always show themselves, without me looking for them
2007-05-02 11:53:49
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answered by Anonymous
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negative qualities? as in things i dont like? or bad things about people that i do like?
well some things i DONT like are...any kind of acne...bald guys...short guys (im 5'8'' at 16) ...besides that its all about personality...
bad things i loovvee about guys are...sexual pick up lines [funny ones] and PDA
2007-05-02 11:54:58
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answered by Anonymous
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why would anyone want negative qualities?
2007-05-02 11:53:42
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answered by Anonymous
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I find it critical that my mate be foolish enough to be my mate. Once they wise up it's all over, sadly.
2007-05-02 12:07:16
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answered by Doctor Why 7
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