i love germany woman from mabye 5 years and she left me and marry from another man and now she divorce she left me 3 years i never stop think on her and cant stop love her , she back and try to play with my heart , plz help
2007-05-02 08:51:11 · 8 answers · asked by DARSH A 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Stay away from her. She hurt you, and now, she's back trying to get your attention again so that maybe she can do the same thing all over. Just focus on yourself and think about your needs. Ask yourself what type of people do you want in your life? When you're certain about yourself, people will notice your confidence and new relationships will arise. Good luck!
2007-05-02 09:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot forget her. Don't even try. My second husband left me over 30 years ago, and I still think of our good times. I am now married to a much better man.
You have to decide that the feeling you have will not go away. Do not let your feelings rule you, that is what your brain is for. You decide that you are not going to let it interfere with your life, and work around it just like you would a sore arm or foot.
2007-05-02 09:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Yarnlady_needsyarn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is short and not so sweet but it works. Let nothing enter your mind but the pain she has caused you. You can't go on letting this confused woman tear you apart. She counts on you to love her. She is wasting many years of your life and that's not good or remotely fair. Concentrate on the bad feelings and the hurt she has caused you and the things you might have had without her. Forget the good times because they only serve to entrap you. Only the bad that comes from this relationship is all you need to cut her loose for good. Do it Now. You Can. Many men have had to do this. So can you.
2007-05-02 09:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the saying "forgive and forget" is wrong. It does us well to remember, even when it's painful. By forgetting that someone hurt you, you open the door for them to do it over and over until you remember "Hey, last time she did this it really ended badly!" I don't think you should forget her or the love you had for her. In time thepinful intensity will fade. Be kind to yourself and don't let her hurt you anymore.
2007-05-02 09:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kellbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bypass by that in the time of basic terms it is the affection of my existence that i presumed i replaced into going to marry. i'm having an extremely difficult time with this. an extremely difficult time. I took her with none attention and theory she might constantly be there. She broke up with me and advised me that she does not think of she would be able to ever come again with me. And on precise of that, i think of she slept with somebody final night. yet you took her with none attention for a reason. Why replaced into that? think of of that and maybe it is going to help you recover from her.
2017-01-09 08:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to think about yourself. How can you make yourself a better person? Then, when you least expect it, you will attract someone new and you can fall in love again.
2007-05-02 08:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by micahcf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to take a running jump off a large german mountain
2007-05-02 09:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Vengeance_is_mine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE A ROCK
GO ON A MOUNTAIN AND SHOUT
'I'M A ROCK'
THAT WAY NO ONE WILL EVER HURT YOU!
2007-05-02 09:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Spark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋