What do you think?
2007-05-02 08:47:59 · 26 answers · asked by buggy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys speak with their actions, not their words. Do not listen to what he says to you, talk is cheap and anyone can say anything. What you need to do is to look carefully and honestly at his actions. They will tell you what is actually the most important things in his life. Right now he is married and his marriage, even if it is loveless, is more important than you are. His actions are speaking, listen to them.
2007-05-02 08:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by John B 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating on his wife, what makes you think he's not cheating, or won't cheat, on you?
This is the standard tired old cliche: the guy wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's still married, isn't he? Well if he 'loved' you so much, he'd divorce and marry you.
If you really want to see what his feelings are, withhold any hanky-panky (and I don't mean just for a short time). Then you'll see if he loves YOU, or just what you can give him.
There's an old saying: "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
2007-05-02 09:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bf had an affair with a married man. She had a bf and the married man tol dher he was leaving his wife and that he loved her. I knew better but she wouldnt listen and he told his wife. And the wife called her bf and they broke up and they just bought a house togeather and she moved back in her parents house at 27. The married man is still with his wife. How would you feel if you were the wife and your husband was cheating. It hurts and Im sorry but they never leave. They have to much invested in a marriage to throw it all away for someone that spreads her legs.
2007-05-02 08:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is married and if he were not in love with his wife he'd have the balls to tell her that he wants a divorce before he hooked up with you. And what his statement meant was that he does care for his wife but you are a booty call and that no matter how he feels or doesn't feel for his wife won't affect him in the least bit. If she finds out about you two i bet you will be like that song says a sad secret regret. You need to go find a single man if you want commitment. Hello darlin would you really want to be someone elses whore or would you like someone who actually respects you and puts you first? cheaters don't ever put anyone first but themselves.
2007-05-02 08:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly have feelings for this guy, let him get a separation and a divorce before going any further.
Lots of people fall out of 'love' with their spouses or say they do, but that does not mean they are going to leave them.
Stay away until he does right by you! Too many fish in the sea!
2007-05-02 08:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Michele 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think if woman would not date men they know are married there would be less heart ache for everyone. You are not only contributing to the break up of a marriage what about the wife and children (if any)? What goes around comes around, would you want your husband to do to you what you are doing to his wife?
2007-05-02 08:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kat G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask his wife. Im sure that hoe is what she will say about you. What are you doing to yourself? You are tearing apart another life and family. Check yourself before you wreck yourself...
2007-05-02 09:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by stormey_84074 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 9 times out of 10 lying to you. Stay clear of him before you get hurt. You didn't expect him to tell you that he has a wonderful relationship with his wife and expect you to stay around did you? the sign is written all over the place,BEWARE, DANGER, STAY OUT. Pay attention to the signs.
2007-05-02 08:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kandie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your just a piece of a** on the side, honey. If a man cheats on his wife he isn't worth having, and if your the other woman you should be ashamed, what happens when your married and your hubby cheats with a woman just like you???
2007-05-02 08:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If he is not in love with his wife, why is he still with her?
A real man would get himself out of that situation and divorce his wife.
I think it's pretty obvious. He is just trying to use you. I'd lose that guy quick, if I were you.
2007-05-02 08:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by malkpennington 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋