At times when my husband wants to have sex he's already aroused and ready to go without foreplay. Sometimes I'm not even looking sexy at all, for him to get that way...should I think he's getting ready by other methods? He tells me he can just be thinking about me...can this be true?
2007-05-02 07:49:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes...men can just think about it and BAM! The mind can easily get a man's body "started". I wouldn't think he's getting ready by other means...it just means he's thinking about you and things you can do to him and then his body starts to react. Don't worry about it, in fact, you should feel flattered that all he needs to do is think about you...he must really enjoy being near you.
2007-05-02 07:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by frontman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes i can be completely aroused by my wife just by a look. Men are creature of nature and visual stimulation comes easy for use, so a look the way she moves the dress her manner can arouse me. Just because you dont think you look sexy does not hold true for use. as someone else said you should be proud that you have this effect on him and that he sees you with that much passion.
2007-05-02 14:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by silentbear25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you think that you aren't looking sexy, remember that is what you think, not what your husband thinks. You could be looking really good to him and that is why he may initiate sex with you because he knows that he will be aroused really easily. This is very true and you have nothing to worry about. After all, you must be doing something right! =)
2007-05-02 07:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by benz s55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way...let's relate sexual arousal to fire. Men can be like lighters....they can turn it on quickly, often just by thinking about an attractive woman, a past sexual experiance, or being next to their wife they love.
Women are more like a friction fire..you have to work at it for a little while befor it's ready to burn fully.
Most men don't get this...but that's another subject.
To answer yours, no, you shouldn't think he's getting ready by other methonds, and he very much CAN just think of you, or the last time you gave him oral, or the way you looked on top of him...and it can do the trick....
Enjoy it...there are some men who just roll over at night and pay no attention to their women...
2007-05-02 07:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by drumbum811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so true. Men don't need touch to get turned on. Just thinking about is usually enough. And sometimes women look sexiest when they are not trying. I'm turned on by my wife when she's not trying to impress way more then when she is.
2007-05-02 07:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife tends to wear yoga pants around the house.
Her picking something up off the floor is about as much foreplay as I need.
2007-05-02 08:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it true. Do you think you only become a women when you put on makeup and sexy clothes?
2007-05-02 08:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by the_meadowlander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.... women sometimes have to be "warmed up", everything just right, a good day, everything perfect. We men are good to go anytime. You obviously float his boat if all he has to do is think of you. Stop being so suspicious and appreciate it!
2007-05-02 12:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, been married 25 years and still true.
2007-05-02 07:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! When we love our gurl we just think of her and we get pumped. So, he's madly in love with u ma.
2007-05-02 07:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by JLC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋