I got married in may of 2005 to my high school love. Everything was fine. She told me she was talking to another guy but nothing happened. I believed her. Then she became pregnant and My son came which I love 2 death. I bought a house and had the perfect family which I wanted. Them I found out she cheated on me and broke my heart. I also found out before I got married that she did have sex with that guy and the courts asked for a paternity test but I denied it bec that is my boy I know it. But did I make a mistake marrying her?
2007-05-02 07:46:34 · 8 answers · asked by dirbe22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we are in divorce court now bec she wants to be with the guy
2007-05-02 08:00:06 · update #1
You sound like a very good man but who got caught in a web of lies.She isn't a good person to be married to,she is a very selfish woman who will keep braking your heart if you let her. Get away from her she is nothing but bad news for you.If you can I would try to take your son away from her before you loss him to another man.
2007-05-02 07:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did the courts find out? Do you love this woman? Trust is a very hard thing to get back once it has been broken. You can forgive but its hard to forget. Only you can tell if you made a mistake, take some time and think about things. Is this what you truely want and can you move on from her cheating?
2007-05-02 14:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Girly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get past the fact of her cheating on you then fine nothing wrong. You are married now the best thing I would say is to work on things.
2007-05-02 14:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it to me. But you didn't know that at the time. I can imagine there is no trust left for her and understandably so. You may be able to repair the damage done, but it will take time.
2007-05-02 14:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Aquaria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on, rebuild your life, find someone who respects and loves you.
2007-05-02 17:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by bluvw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you did. mine did the same. i didn't ask 4 my daughter either. we are now divorced after 10yrs of hell.
2007-05-02 14:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did.... and be ready to be cheated again... it will not stop.
2007-05-02 14:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love her and can forgive her then it doesn't matter.
2007-05-02 14:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋