my period has been 4days late...but the past few months it has been quite irregular but before then it was always on time. i'm worried..I have never had sex before but me n my boyfriend have done other things and I no wen he has ejaculated we always stop but I heard dat if he's close dat pre-ejaculation can make you pregnant! is this true? this would have been 4weeks ago as we havent done anything since.. I havent any systomes but i've jus felt a bit bloated and I might be imagining it but my face feels plumper but I havent put on weight on my body!! i've been worrying all month anxious for my period to come cud this delay it? i'm 18!!
2007-05-02 07:20:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
may I just add that quite a few people are saying to me on this that we are having sex and withdrawing I have NOT had sex we just done other things and he was quite close to me!
2007-05-02 20:11:45 · update #1
Calm down... It sounds like you are so stressed out because you don't want to get pregnant that you have caused your body to start acting like it's pregnant. The same thing happens if you get stressed out thinking that you are sick your body will start to act like it is sick calm down stop worrying and your period will probly start . If it doesn't the go to family dollar or dollar general and by a test they are only a buck and are just as accurate. And another thing: don't believe all of the silly duperstitions you hear.
2007-05-02 07:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While becoming pregnant from pre-ejaculate fluid is possible, it's very unlikely. There should only be live, active sperm in pre-ejaculate fluid if the male has not urinated since his last ejaculation. HOWEVER, the withdrawal method is NOT a reliable form of birth control, in fact, it is only 73% effective at preventing pregnancies, and 0% effective at preventing STDs.
Wait three days. If you've not started your period by then, take a test to be sure. You're probably not pregnant, but if you're going to be having sex, you need to be responsible enough to have sex. This means that you need to use a reliable form of birth control. Use a condom, they're inexpensive and they are at least 85% effective at preventing unwanted pregnancies! If you can't use a condom, don't have sex, it's that simple.
2007-05-02 07:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 days isn't anything! It might be stress. Yes, the pre-ejaculation can get you preg. but it's not as likely. You are prob about to start your period and that's why you are bloated. Go and get a preg test right away! It will stop you from worrying! Also, just in case you are preg... I had my son when I was 19 and he changed my life for the best. It's been hard... but I owe my life to him! :)
2007-05-02 07:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by summer123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a test or rather go and see your doctor darling. 4 days aren't that late. It could still be ok. You have to do a bloodtest to make sure though. Do it ASAP so that you can stop worrying...if you're too scared, take a pregnancy test from boots. It might depend on your age as well. I was pretty irregular in my teens. The pill helps to make it regular though...
2007-05-02 07:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could do check with a doctor to be sure, however sometimes females periods will change flows like when i was in high school it was heavy for several years then it went to little flow for a few years, and i saw the timing of it fluctuate as well where sometimes it'd come pretty on schedule & then it'd change & come early each month, then this would change after awhile & it'd come late each month. i was always seen by a doctor & see it was normal & i was ok. you're most likely normal as well.
2007-05-02 07:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by wise fishy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my 2d being pregnant, I had taken a sparkling Blue digital 3 days in the previous my ignored era, because of the fact it claims to be waiting to discover being pregnant 5 days in the previous your ignored era. It replaced into unfavorable. 3 days after my ignored era I took yet another one, it too replaced into unfavorable. So i presumed that i replaced into no longer pregnant. 2 weeks later and nonetheless no era, I took an off style being pregnant try, and it got here back beneficial. i replaced into 8 weeks alongside via ultrasound! So it would desire to ok be which you're pregnant. try waiting some greater days and attempting out back. If nonetheless unfavorable, and no era, have your Dr. do a blood attempt to envision for being pregnant. good luck!
2017-01-09 08:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple maths here-- Using a condom and the pill= No unwanted babies.
PLease use contraception and relax. Irregular periods are common, so rule out pregnancy by practising safe sex
2007-05-02 07:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, don't panic, in young adults and teens it is common for you to have irregular periods. Yes pre-ejaculation can make you pregnant but it is very unlikely since pre-ejac. is to clear the urethra of urine. Talk to your doctor ALONE and discuss what it could be,
2007-05-02 07:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Steph! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may well have succeeded in becoming pregnant, using this dodgy ' withdrawal ' method. It seems to have also affected your ability to spell.
Most people who use this particular method of contraception are called ' parents '. Check a pregnancy test!
It suggests you sex education level is quite poor assuming you are not about to find out the hard way have a look at : www.likeitis.org.uk/
It may help prevent future accidents.
2007-05-02 09:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Frank 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sperm CAN be transferred from a man's fingers, to your vagina, but I think you're late because of anxiety. I wouldn't think you're pregnant, but why don't you buy a home testing kit (you can get them for as little as £3) to put your mind at ease?
Remember to use condoms when you DO decide to have intercourse.
2007-05-02 07:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋