I am in totally in love with my boyfriend and i know he loves me too.He isn't afraid to tell the world how much he loves me,or to show it.However,we split for a weeks recently after a fight.During this time,my best friend did her best to help both of us out,and get us back together.She helped alot and here we are,a great couple again!But at the same time,our friends have told me they are a bit too friendly.I think it might just be a close friend/sister/brother thing though.Today,when this guy was messing her about,my boyfriend got mad and said the guy didn't deserve her.And she grabbed his hand to stop him from doing something,and they had a silly fight.I know i'm being stupid,because i know how much they both love me and would never do anything.Do you get this protective over a friend/sister figure,yes?
2007-05-02 05:12:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like there is more to this than just being "brother/sister/friend". I think you should look into this a little deeper.
2007-05-02 05:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dallas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned the hard way never trust your best friend and your boyfriend, especially if you have heard stuff about them,or have a feeling in the pit of your stomach, I also thought my best friend would never do anything to hurt me, boy was i wrong, and i hope i am wrong about this for your sake, i guess i have just had a bad history with situations like this. I really hope the best for you.
2007-05-02 12:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen,we are all human and feelings happen.Whenever two people hang together and there is a third party this usually happens,even if it's just a passing thought these things always happen when man and woman are involved.It depends on who the people involved in this situation are and if they can recognize these happenings as just passing and not act on them but I doubt that 's the outcome.most people will react to sexual attraction so I guess you should prepare your self for your intuition will usually prove right.
2007-05-02 12:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont much but what I do know is you have to have trust in your boyfriend and your best friend. You must do what it takes to become a secure and confident woman, so that you can be secure in your relationship. If your boyfriend says he loves you believe him. Find out what it is in you that makes you distrust him, if you dont it will ruin the relationship.
2007-05-02 12:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her to be honest with you about this situation. They can still both love you, and hurt you at the same time.
2007-05-02 12:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like they either have done something already or are going to really soon... Keep your eye on both of them...
2007-05-02 12:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they like each other more than 'friends".If the 2 of you break up again they will eventually be together.
2007-05-02 12:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes sense why you are feeling this way. Maybe you should try talking to your boyfriend and explain to him why you would feel that way.
2007-05-02 12:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no!!! only when someone has true feelings for the person
2007-05-02 12:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋