I've been with my partner for almost nine years but lately I dont want him to touch me and is not only when I have my period is like I love him and want to be with him but please dont touch me kind of thing. Im 34 and have a daughter with him. Is this one of the symptoms of premenopause. Ive been to the doctor already, hormones and thyroid is alright so they say. Any comments? Somebody going tru the same thing?
2007-05-02 04:08:37 · 2 answers · asked by Demi 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes the touch I dont like is in a sexual way. I like to be hugh and a kiss but is mostly in the intimacy that I dont want to be touched. sometimes I have to pretend that I want to have intimacy not to reject him all the time. Because when I do tell him I dont want to have sex he understand is that I dont want to be touch at all then there is no hughs or kisses.
2007-05-02 04:26:34 · update #1
i have the same problem are you talking about hugs aswell. because sometimes when my man tries to show me any kind of sexual affection i would rather do anything than that and i dont want him to touch me. if you fell this way about simple affection eg: hugs, kisses then it may be wise to talk to him or a proffesional. but if its in a sexual way dont worry it happens to most women in long relationships, i have felt this way about 4 times it is normal!!
2007-05-02 04:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something you aren't dealing with emotionally, I don't presume to know what it is, and I don't know if you recognize what it is.....but you are avoiding something emotionally. Suggest you see a therapist.
2007-05-02 04:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋