I've just booked a getaway break to weymouth ( i know not exciting but its just to get away from work and city life) i rang him to say ive booked it and he was happy then i said we take your car...and it turned into a whole arguement over he doesn't want to take his car coz of his sound system and he has no spare wheel ( pointless) and he's not with the AA or rac or anything....and before u say why dont u have a car ...coz i cant afford one! Ok so even though i've just paid for this holiday he's expecting me to pay for a hired car aswell as that... and when i said well cant we go half's he said go by ur f*ckin self then! I've only done this holiday coz we havent been away since the start of last yr and i thought we need a break but whatever i do it's thrown bk in my face like its not good enough for him....he recently after he said i should go by myself said it would of been crap anyway and i don't try hard enough! should i just go by myself ? i could properly do with a break !!
2007-05-02 03:18:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the only break you should have is from him, take some other guy with you that treats you with te respect you desserve, ideally in this guys car. Show your bloke what a **** he is. Stop waisting your time and money on him
2007-05-02 03:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this man asap. You always have to take a threat like that seriously because you never know what people are really capable of. Next step you have to take is go the cops and get a restraining order. If you have to go back to get your stuff DO NOT GO BY YOURSELF. Make sure to bring someone with you, preferably a male. If this guy comes anywhere near you, you immediately call the cops. save all texts, email, or voice mails that he sends threatening. Also go an file for a divorce. Were you helping him or was he helping you with immigration? Good luck
2016-04-01 05:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only should you go by yourself or with a girl friend you should get dressed look real fly! and have a good time! He should be paying for the whole trip but he doesn't want to pay for half sounds like you deserve better.Guys now days for some reason believe that women should pay the bill, women should take care of them, women should put up with their cheating ways and abuse.They only think that because we as women made it too easy for them.We lower our standards and settle for less.We open our legs quicker.Hell we even take pride in taking other women's men,Making it easier for men to cheat.What happened if you dumped your boyfriend and thought about yourself for a changed. The truth of the matter is he is only thinking about himself and sorry to tell you men like that don't change.Not all guys are asses there are some good ones out there but you'll never know unless you put him to the side,put yourself first and go shopping. Shopping for another guy that is! :)
Good luck!
Kushi
2007-05-02 03:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Deanna Rachelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop for one minute and read what you just wrote. Now pretend this was another girl writing this.
Got it?
He's NOT WORTH YOUR ENERGY!
Who cares about his freaking sound system?
Look, if he loved you, he'd want to go on this vacation if he drove a 1984 oldsmobile covered in rust with no windshield! Who cares about anything on his car, he should be grateful to be spending quality time with you and appreciative of your thoughtfulness.
And darlin, don't ever stand for a man speaking to you in that manner. It's not only immature but disrespectful.
Tell him you ARE NOT going by yourself, but with a friend and you're going to have a BLAST without him.
It would've been CRAP ANYHOW? Hm...what efforts is HE MAKING for the 2 of you to get away?
Either straighten the track or can this trainwreck babe. Lots of men out there are waiting for a sweetheart with a heart of gold like you!
2007-05-02 06:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by VivienLeigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend to go with you.....even better if it was a male friend.
Sorry to say this but this bloke sounds very selfish and needs to be kicked into touch ASAP.....dump him and enjoy your life. Whats the point of staying with someone who is a whinger and a grumpy idiot (I'm being very polite lol) if he is like this now just imagine what he will be like as he gets older.
I had to go out with quite a few frogs until I found my prince.....so don't settle for a frog when you can have some fun looking for your prince charming.
2007-05-02 03:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hoppity-ES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy needs to be ditched. I know you have feelings, but they do need to be reciprocated.
Go on the holiday. Go with out him, maybe take a good girlfriend. Have a great time and don't discuss it again with him. You'll have a great time and have a well disserved rest.
Him... I'd ditch the bugger so fast he wouldn't know what hit him. You disserve a man who will love you and commit to you 100% and be offended that you paid for any of it, not just halvsies.
-- Fizz --
2007-05-02 03:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Fizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a complete ****, dump him and go on the weekend with a girl pal and make it a celebrate dumping the **** weekend!!!! I think you'll find that after dumping him you won't need another holiday for a while bcoz you'll be so much happier! Honestly you deserve so much better than that! x
2007-05-02 10:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Dimples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you should go out and find some other grateful bloke to take. this guy sounds like a real w****r who has no regard for your feelings what so ever. if hes gunna treat you like your not good enough. then he probably doesn't deserve you. theres plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-05-02 03:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ungrateful fecking shitebag!! i think you should go with a girl or male friend have a great time and dump that horrible git!
2007-05-02 04:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes girl go by yourself and have a wicked time. at least tell him that anyway if he i not stubborn he will apolagise and you will go and forget everything about it. but if he does not go and have a nice chilled out time or take one of you friends!! hope every thing turns out ok!! and you have a nice break with him or with out
2007-05-02 03:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋