Ok my girfriend wanted to have unprotected sex with, she didn't like condoms. At first I was hesitant, but she told me she can't get pregnant her first husband had sex with her all the time and she never got pregnant. Her second husband she had sex with all the time too and she never got pregnant with him either, she was married to him for 6 years.
So I had unprotected sex with her several times thinking ok she can't get pregnant ! Now she tells me she really wanted kids when she was younger, but her first husband was sterile, she was fine and perfectly capable of getting pregnant. Her second husband she had sex with all the time for the first few months of their marrage, but she was on the pill then. She goes on to say how she always wanted to adopt a kid or have kids of her own and regrets she didn't do it when she was younger. Does she want me to get her pregnant, opinions?
2007-05-02 02:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
they question is do you want to be a father?
2007-05-02 02:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by moo 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh surely she wants you to get her pregnant...and its only YOU shes considering. If she wanted a baby so bad, why didnt she try it with her second husband.
I would really suggest to reconsider your relation with her or if you love her and its ok with you than go ahead and make babies. Remember, bringing a life in this world is not easy there are many factors involved. Emotional, physical, many responsibilities too.
She may even trap you. So you just have to be careful. I cant pass a comment about her becoz I dont know her personally. But if you are just like any "hanging out" couple, then pls avoid unprotected sex.I dont know whats her incentive behind all this.
Just be careful. Good luck!
2007-05-02 09:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She does by the sounds of it.
Tell her that you want her to take some kind of precautions or insist on wearing a condom.
You have half a responsibility for contraception remember. If she wants to be silly and trap you, thats her problem.
2007-05-02 09:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with someone who has tried to deceive you and has lied several times. She must be really good in bed or you would have left already. Save yourself. If you do insist on staying, tell her it is condoms or the door. Good luck.
2007-05-02 09:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by waltnsue2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
RRRRRRRUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNN.
She doesn't seem stable and there seems to be too many "coincidences". Cover it up. Plus, it sounds like you are not married. You should not get someone pregnant unless you are married......to that person. Girls will lie to get pregnant. Just be careful dude. Think with your head, the one on your shoulders.
2007-05-02 09:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos G 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, probably and it sounds like she is trying to trap you into a pregnancy. She's sneaky and sneaky people are never good partners for long term relationships.
2007-05-02 09:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by janeannpat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her if she is going to be dishonest with you about something this serious then what else is she being dishonest about. Wear a condom!!! She can't trick you into something if you don't let her.
2007-05-02 14:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sound's like a manipulative psycho. Either find a new girlfriend or wear a condom.
2007-05-02 09:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes to me it sounds like she wants a baby and if you don't want one then you need to protect yourself. Having a baby is a blessing and a great joy, but you have to be ready and want it yourself.
2007-05-02 09:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ga's Peach 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it chief!!!! Protect yourself from becoming a dad and infections - rubber up :)
2007-05-02 09:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by JOANNE C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run far far away from this thing.
Or start wearing condoms.
DO NOT TRUST HER to use any type of contraceptive.
2007-05-02 09:38:28 · answer #11 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋