Have u ever had to?

Question

apologize to someone but u just cannot find the courage to face them? I honestly and truly DIDN'T mean to upset this person and I feel so bad and I wanna go and apologize to her but I just can't find the courage to face her coz I feel so stupid :'-(

Thanks for all ur answers, I'm gonna go and meet her now. Wish me luck!!! (still feeling so darn nervous!)

Answer 1

Yes. I know exactly what you mean. The same think happened to me last week. I was in the wrong and when that was explained to me, I wanted to fall into a big hole in the ground.

Answer 2

hmmm it sure is very guilty. I feel that utmost guilt when i do something bad to someone and have to go face them. Well for you its an exception cos ur js a bit too shy i guess, but still u sure feel guilty. Well you dont want to break their heart after all the muslim who is kind and peaceful is always the better muslim. lol Inshallah have fun apologizing to that sister.

Answer 3

You'll feel so much better after you apologize. It's better to lose face than to lose a friend. You'll get over the embarrassment quickly. Do it....for you and the other person.

Answer 4

IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR THE COURAGE PREY ABOUT IT THEN REFER TO YOUR BIBLE AT THE BACK ARE SEVERAL THINGS YOU CAN GO TO IN REFERENCE TO THERE ARE VERSES YOU CAN READ THAT PERTAIN TO ALOT OF THINGS THERE IS VERSES ON ENCOURAGEMENT I STRONGLY ENCOURAGE YOU TO READ THROUGH AND READ THE VERSES YOU WANT IT IS WRITTEN IN THE BIBLE TO TREAT ONE AS YOU WOULD YOU LIKE IF SHE DID NT ACKNOWLEDGE YOU HER FAULT I SAY ALSO READ THE REFERENCE ON QUARRILING THERE ARE SOME AWESOME REFERENCES THERE TAKE A LOOK ALSO PREY PREY PREY NO ONE IS PERFECT SHE SHOULD KNOW THAT ALSO IF YOU DIDNT MEAN TO HURT HER IF YOU DONT TELL HER UNTIL YOU DO TELL HER YOU DIDNT MEAN IT SHE WILL NEVER KNOW ITS JUST BETTER TO DO THE RIGHT THING LET ME KNOW HOW IT GOES GOOD LUCK YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU SET YOUR MIND TO IF YOUR HEART IS THERE TO GOD BLESS

Answer 5

I remember one night my late brother and I were playing with my dad's golf club. We got into a fight about it, and we both swung the club into the chandelier. My brother got chewed out for it, because my dad saw my brother with the club.

Later that night, I went up to my dad, who was shaving or gargling in the bathroom, and told him that I also helped my brother break the chandelier.

Surprisingly, my dad wasn't angry. He forgave me, and gave me a pat on the rump and told me it's bedtime.

Moral of the story: Just tell the truth.

Answer 6

I know how you feel. You'll feel better if you just apologize though...think about it....how would the other person feel if she found out you didn't apologize b/c of your own wimpiness?

Answer 7

haha many times but its better to do it now that later only get harder just apolagize and explain dont worry things will wrk out it better that just sitting there and thinking about it say sorry and if she dnt wanna know at least u tried it will not hurt to say sorry makes u the bigger person u seen i hahve even hd to say sorry 2 ppl even when thy in the wrong huh but enoygh about that *** Hle

Answer 8

yes....But I have learnt that the best thing to do is go face your friend, admit to your mistakes, don't lie....that never ever helps...just swallow your pride and go see her....and when she asks you questions reply honestly,even if your answers might hurt...she'll thank you one day for being truthful. Good luck *hug*

Answer 9

just go and do it and make it fast. If you sit debating over doing it, it will just stress you more. You will feel alot better after you do it. Good luck.

Answer 10

Just take a deep breath and go do it. You will feel better after you do it. I have been in the same situation.