why do I cry after making love?

Answer 1

There may be various answers:
The most common reason for someone crying after making love is that there is a sudden drop in your hormones.
So you have a sudden rush of sadness.

But there could be another reason.

That you had a really bad experience as a child.
When people have sex it releases the hormones and gives a person extreme pleasure. maybe as a child you had a really bad experience and your subconscious remembers the feeling of sadness as a child and counteracts the pleasure.

But don't ask me i hadn't got a clue i was actually making the hole lot up though, made u believe though lol
But didn't i sound professional

Answer 2

Emotional release. When you make love with someone you actually really love and it is caring, sensual and intense you can get what I call an emotional overload. You are not crying because you are unhappy, in fact exactly the opposite.

In my experience it happens when the two of you are so connected and you have just completed the most intimate thing that you can do with another person. There is something fantastic about truly opening up for each other and the emotions that, that can evoke are staggering.

I too have experienced this after some of my most tender and caring love making sessions we have been incredibly satisfied and emotionally drained but with each other and have laid sobbing with each other. It is an intense feeling and the utter love that you feel for each other defies description.

No doubt I will be ridiculed for this, but unless you have experienced it you cannot imagine it.

Hang on to it for as long as you can if it is truly because of the person you are with, it is to be treasured, few people are so compatible.

Answer 3

Because it was a tender and loving, when you love someone sooo much and you both ejaculated at the same time . I used to cry but because i felt loved, happy and fulfilled. Strange hey:))

Answer 4

Yes! Why?? Sometimes I cry after orgasm because I just feel so moved by it. There must be a scientific explanation.

Answer 5

My 1st girlfriend (many years ago) ALWAYS did that too - she said she did it out of happiness. I never met anyone else (after going through 17 more) who expressed themselves in the same way - but, hey! point is, you're not alone, don't worry about it if your partner doesn't....

Answer 6

Sometimes "love making" os so overwhemling you cant control your emotions.......but then again are you in a relationship with someone or are you "freely open" to explore then it might just be guilt and maybe you should not do anything only you know the anser to that........ Good luck

Answer 7

Emotions running on overdrive! Nothing wrong with it, I think if people are honest,they'll admit it's happened to some of them too, not ashamed to say it's happened to me in the past.!

Answer 8

Maybe at first when you went to do it you believed it was making love then afterwards when you realized it was over...it was just sex?..

you need to explain more in details for me to say more in details. like whats the issue. did it hurt?, was it a one nigh fling and you feel used, do you love this person?..like maybe your unsure of your feelings towards this person that your sleeping with. or maybe your just not comfertable with yourself afterwards?

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Answer 9

after? or during? this happens to me during making love if i have had a particularly good session - it just takes over your whole body and i guess the feeling has to materialise somehow

Answer 10

I have done this on many occassions too. Its like a release, letting yourself totally go. Complete satisfaction and just letting yourself be just you, 100%. Not a bad thing honey.