made you look like a total fool in front of or around other friends, kept things from you, lied to you, and tried to steal your boyfriends away from you,and kept explaining it as "well, you always go elsewhere when we go out..and it isn't MY problem if they come unto me!"
What would you say, do, and how would you really truly deal with them?
I am assuming that you most likely would NOT put up with that type of behavior..but, then again ,some don't care,,,or do you?
and why?
thanks!
2007-05-01 22:01:42 · 7 answers · asked by ladyk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am in fact..and quite thankfully no longer friends with this person...but I kind of have been just wondering off and on, what other people would have thought of a friend( a best or close friend) that would do things like this to their best friend...) My ex- friend, she would go to the lengths of trying to be with a guy whom she would tell me over and over that she was NOT attracted to..but, would tell me also,(at the same time) that because he had hurt My feelings..that she would just "sleep" with him or "use" him...and then dump him! he would never know!
Now what do you think of her?
(she always liked to be with guys who already had somebody!) I don't agree with this...even though I have been in that situation..I still do not agree with it!..and I don't do that anymore...I am happily settled down with ONE lovely man! *grins*!
2007-05-01 23:23:27 · update #1
loss her as a friend and let her have your boyfriend!! I say this because my sister tried to steal my b/f in the past and I let him go and that night he was in bed with her!!!!!
2007-05-09 21:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend??? if that's your friend I don't want to see your enemies. Get your self some real friends
As for your boyfriend. For respect to you, he should tell any one who is trying to make a move on him that he is happily in a relationship, he is not interested and ask them to stop, and if they don't, avoid there company.
If someone makes a move on your guy, its still his choice how he react to them, and if he respond back that he is interested, he does not deserve you (keep in mind his personality, you don't want to change him)
2007-05-02 05:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by г๏zเ -----x.♡.x----- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best friend needs a major attitude adjustment. I wouldn't say anything because if you did you'd be stooping to her/his level. Just stay away from them socially until you see a change of attitude from them. Just don't comment to her insults. Remember it's beneath you to act the way she/he does.
2007-05-02 06:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No friend of yours.
The key is having a boy friend that you trust and "friends" like you describe can never be a threat.
You keep alluding to your happy marriage.
Are you ??
2007-05-02 12:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by radar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you dont what anything to do with her anymore that she is not your friend you dont need a friend like that because there will be problems down the road
2007-05-08 18:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh it wouldve been on she wouldnt have done it to someone else. some people just need to be taught how it feels to be on the receiving end of the hurt .
2007-05-10 02:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend or hang by yourself for a while.
2007-05-09 23:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by msjuliet2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋