its been about 5 days. is there ANY way i could still get caught? maybe im just paranoid. but im so worried that one day im going to get a call at school telling me to go to the office. and there are going to be police there and my parents are going to disown me. yes this is probably a guilt trip. but with my karma all out of whack. i dunno. can this happen?
i mean they couldnt possibly have a way to track me down, especially if it was in a mall and it wasnt obvious at all. like i didnt walk out with different earings on.
how long should i give it before i just take my guilt, but not worry about getting caught?
oh and, i will NEVER EVER EVER do this again. especially because of the "im going to pee my pants everytime the phone rings in class, or the security guard stops in to class" feeling.
2007-05-01
19:31:08
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yes i know. and i appreciate the honesty. but it was in a dressing room and for all they know, i just left them in there. and plus, its not like the mall who attracts thousands of people by the day even those from different states, could pinpoint me from a fuzzy video camera and somehow track me down...right? and to be honest. i didnt do anything suspicious. i grabbed the earings and went upstairs to try on some clothes. as if i was going to purchase them. but lets just say, it was a stupid peer pressure thing that im too old for. and i never want to do it again.
2007-05-01
19:38:40 ·
update #1
yeah im probably just messing myself up. im actually a pretty good kid, my grades arent perfect but i plan on having a decent, successful future. this just little mishap occured and unfortunately, it brought bad things with it. (i have bad karma) and getting caught, even if it isnt a bad punishment, would force my parents to probably send me away. thanks for the answers. it really calmed me down, but yes i still feel guilt. and i understand thats good.
2007-05-01
19:45:11 ·
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Take them back to the store and apolagize.You will feel better and I doubt they will press charges.
2007-05-01 19:38:43
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answered by elizabeth v 5
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Please listen to me. I know and you know what you did was wrong. If you are afraid of your parents, then let me walk you back to that store and take the earrings back to them.
It is the right thing to do and will ease your own guilt trip so much. My parents would have grounded me for several weeks, but by your statement, you seem to know that what you did was wrong.
Please take the earrings back. It sounds like you have a great family that could have easily bought them, so doing the right thing is very important.
Take them back to the store and offer to pay for them out of your allowance money. You have learned about a guilty conscience, so hopefully it won't happen again, yes?
Or do I have to tell your parents? lol I'm just kidding, my daughter is around your age, I like being fun.
2007-05-01 19:46:04
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answered by kaliroadrager 5
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It has been a week. Chances are you are not going to get caught 20.00 earrings are not a priority for the loss prevention department of a store. However do not push you you luck and make this a habit to steal. If you really feel the need to confess get a diary or go to confession (cathloic chruch thing). Just get on with your life you can not undo what has already been done. Just don't wear those earrings to the store you stole them from.
2007-05-01 19:40:30
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answered by last dragon 2
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Ur just trippin.
They probably dont even know its u.
The only thing they might know is that its missing.
Just dont get caught, or u will have it on ur record for the rest of ur life if ur over 18. Then u'll be miserable trying to find a job.
Dont bring it back either. Ur juut asking for punishment if u do.
just enjoy what u stole for now, and dont do it again.
Since ur trippin like this, stealing is not for u. ur suppose to enjoy the thrill.
Just pay for it. Dont steal.
If u cant afford it, u have no business wearing it.
You're just fooling yourself.
And yes, karma happens.
2007-05-01 19:41:51
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answered by loveithateit 3
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Guilt is a good thing. It is your minds way of teaching you a lesson. Let it take its course. If you didnt feel guilty, you would probably keep stealing, and eventually get caught and possibly ruin your life. Be grateful for that guilt. It could save your butt by preventing you from repeating the same mistake.
2007-05-01 19:34:42
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answered by Bomb_chele 5
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Put the earrings in an envelope and mail it back to the department store with an apology note. You where bless this time. If you think you're to always get away with it everytime, there's a lot of kids like in the juve who thought the same way. Don't go to that store for awhile you might of been tape on camera.
God Bless
2007-05-01 19:51:55
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answered by tony 6
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You obviously have been brought up well and listened to adults' lessons about living at peace with others and yourself. Congratulations. Not much chance you will get caught now, but you've already punished yourself. Why not give them to charity? If you wear them, you will probably always think of the mistake you made and beat yourself up about it. By the way, if you ask most adults and they are honest, they probably will have a story just like yours in their past. If you never-never-never will do it again, it's a lesson well learned.
2007-05-01 19:38:15
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answered by perudonations 3
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To ease your mind, i would take them back.
Just say you were gonna buy it, then someone called your cell, and you walked out with out even thinking & now want to return them.
Or just keep them and never walk into that mall again,
Like the other poster said; malls have cameras in places that we don't even know - not all camera's are seen to the public eye..
It's good you learn't your lesson and won't do it again..
Stealing is bad - Karma will get'cha in the a@@ for stealing.
2007-05-01 19:37:19
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answered by thesoapgoatsoapshop 4
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answered by pires 4
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Take em back, set them on the counter and walk away, or better yet, fess up to it.
A good person would never have stolen them, but a good person sometimes faultiers, and its a great person that goes back and admits what they did and takes the punishment, even when they say they will never do it again.
2007-05-01 19:39:10
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answered by Harmon 4
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if i were u...id throw the earrings away...just the thought of seeing it everytime would remind me of what i did...
and u are being really paranoid!! people steal from da mall all the time ( I DONT!!) and they dont get caught...besides its just a pair of earrings! its not like its a thousand dollar item!
but i would just stay away from the store u stole it from for a while just in case..
but DONT EVER DO IT AGAIN!!!
2007-05-01 19:37:04
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answered by Anonymous
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