my boyfriend is sweet and he is perfect in my eyes but sometimes he controls me and he tells i have to walk with my head down because he doesnt want me to look at noone else he makes me perform sexual acts that i dont feel comfortable with when he calls me and my cousin tells him that im not able to get on the phone at the moment he yells at him and threatens to beat him up....i model and i dont want to mess up my future...what am i to do...?i love him i dont want to leave..and things at home arent too good my dad drinks and he flips out on everyone....am i goin to make it to be that famous girl or are things going to get in the way?HElp im only 16 turning 17!!!!!
2007-05-01 17:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Take it from me, just get outta town. Buy a bus ticket and leave it all behind or it'll dog you for the rest of your wretched life. Just leave, go somewhere else and finish school. Never call home. You're old enough - it's totally legal. There are people and agencies who can put you on the right track. Just go.
2007-05-01 17:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're turning 17, girl. The last thing you need is a guy like that.
As you grow up, you'll find other guys that will treat you differently. What I'm trying to say is that you'll find someone better than him. WAY better than that crap you keep holding on to. What you have is nothing. You love him. Does he love you? I'm sure someone who loves you won't be behaving like that. Having said that, he deprives you. You're letting him take your dignity away as a young woman. "...he makes me perform sexual acts that i don't feel comfortable with..." That's putting you down, girl. have self-worth, because your boyfriend doesn't value it. Value that, girl. Seriously. Controlling ain't fun. Specially in a relationship like the one you have.
You need to find yourself a better guy. Anyways, your just turning 17 soon. You will find others in your future. You love him, but it doesn't seem that he does not. He at least doesn't appreciate you. That's not a guy to be with. Don't live in hell. So, the hell with him! Don't put yourself down by taking all that bad stuff. I said enough. Good Luck and Peace!
2007-05-01 17:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple question for you, how can u modeling when u don't have self esteem and walk with ur head down?
2007-05-01 17:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by alan2dylan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a case of low self esteem....loose the baggage , you're too young for that kinda nonsense!
2007-05-01 17:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by ninjagirlz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you model?
2007-05-01 17:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by KABANGA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reaad up on co-dependancy.
2007-05-01 17:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋