I believe a man should only take away his wife's computer privileges if she is messing up his computer somehow (accidentally downloading viruses, messing around with system settings, etc.), spending too much time on it, or if she is going to websites she was forbidden to go to. As for TV, it should be if she was watching bad tv shows or movies on it or maybe spending too much time watching it. The cool part is that I have never happened to take away my girlfriends TV priveleges before because I was able to use the V-Chip to censor out inappropriate TV shows. As far as time limits go, I'm flexible....it really depends on the day and what needs to be done. I don't like putting a password on the computer because I want to be able to give the lady I am with some freedom and responsibility as long as she knows that she is not to be going to 'bad' websites. I might be in the minority on this but I really feel I am being very loving and fair.
2007-05-01 16:53:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Edit..you all make a great point about why it would be wrong to take away the computer if she accidentally downloaded viruses....I didn't mean if she did it here and there..ofcourse its not her fault..what I meant was if she kept doing it over and over and over again after you tell her not to download anything suspicious.
2007-05-01 17:02:59 · update #1
The nude pictures I posted of me were for you, not for anybody else. Please don't be mad. And don't take away my computer.
2007-05-01 16:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
Yes sweetheart,
if a woman needs a punishment for being bad that is a great idea but, like some other people mentioned, the viruses might have been an accident. (I know CNN's website can give you viruses)
You are being extremely loving and fair master!
I don't think women should be watching much tv at all anyway because, first of all, there are not many appropriate tv shows on and there are so many other things that are much more important (cleaning the house, doing laundry, cooking, etc.)
I am so happy we have you to keep us women happy and submissive!
XOXO
2007-05-02 11:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that is very loving and fair! i know you want to give her some freedom so maybe put some parental controls on the internet like the v-chip, perhaps block downloading? i remember there was a mcafee software i had on my old computer which warned you if something was 'suspicious' and i do think it did help, maybe write down what files are safe for example ones that are .jpg or something and what files might not be safe. taking the computer away for a temporary amount of time may be suitable if it really is causing you a lot of trouble, i know how annoying it can be to reformat a comp! i hope these suggestions help you and good luck to you and your girlfriend(s)!
♥
edit: don't listen to those silly answers that are telling you not to be concerned about her! maybe they need to care more! you're doing the right thing! i promise even if your adulating ladies move away from your ideas like the pollen from a milkweed (which are right darn it!) look behind you and i'll be there backing you up!
♥
he's not bossing them around, he's simply trying to protect THEIR computer try rereading the part where he mentions that he WANTS to give her FREEDOM and RESPONSIBILITY he's not being unreasonable, he's even adjusting the time limits per day and for what needs to be done, consider all that before you say they need to work it out together
2007-05-01 17:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Liquid♥Onyx 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If your wife is exhibiting behavior that you don't approve of then yes, it's proper to do so as a punishment. If she's purposely downloading viruses, trojans, worms, etc then she shouldn't be on the computer...or she should be told where not to go and what not to download. I personally see something wrong with your idea of using a V-chip to censor the TV. While you may feel the need to protect her from anything and everything, she's a grown woman. Is it really wrong if she wants to watch an action flick? Men who have the need to control everything and micro manage every detail of their spouse's lives are just compensating for an insecurity over something. A man that's truly interested in living a DD relationship doesn't have to micro manage his wife/gf to get her to be submissive.
2007-05-01 22:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Privileges? Is this a marriage or a parent/child relationship? You have no right to take anything away. You do have a right to tell her how you feel about that stuff and if she continues to watch and look at inappropriate things then maybe you need to analyze the relationship as a whole. But to "take away privileges" sounds like you have a control issue. Maybe you're the one that needs help.
2007-05-01 16:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Rick 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
um exactly how old are these wives and girlfriends? Taking away privlideges sounds like you are talking about a child not an adult. I admit wives and girlfriends should spend time with the signifagant other but if the husband or boyfriend is visiting bad sites or spending too much time on these items it has to then be O.K. to take away thier comp and tv privlidges as well right?
2007-05-01 16:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
MY computer privileges are revoked when it interferes with my duties. The TV has never been taken away because I only get to watch it in the evening after all my chores are complete til I go to bed, which with a full time job two kids and husband I go to bed early
2007-05-02 01:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by wicked wench 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your girl is doing all those unsafe things you mention, then she is too damned dumb to use a computer. You are her partner, not her nanny.
If you don't want a fight about it you can just say, gee honey, the pc is on the fritz, some virus got in and really messed it up. Lock it with a password and end of story. Hopefully she won't find out.
2007-05-01 16:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Karan 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
This should be Chapter 3 in your book. I hope you are writing it all down. You would be a great Dom in a Dom/sub relationship.
2007-05-02 06:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by selena d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this stuff all scripted or is this really you?
Could it be true?
I guess it could be. But I am still floored by your level of ignorance...
Were you really mistreated by women at some point in your life?
Please tell me this is all just one bizarre way of screwing with people for your own amusement!?
2007-05-01 17:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she suspeciously talking to someone you don't know or doing things innapropiate, take the computer away.
2007-05-02 08:27:10 · answer #11 · answered by . 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋