Well, basically my best friend tried to get with one of my ex. Even though we broke up a few years ago, we started talking again as friends and potentially getting back together. While my ex and I were talking as friends, my best friend was trying to sleep w/ him behind my back because she knew I wasn't. I don't think it was right because she hated his gusts while we were dating, but after we broke up she was trying to get with him. I heard both sides of the story and she said she only did it because he is a nice guy and he was just there. I'm thinking about ending the friendship with her or a least no longer having her as a best friend. What do you think? We've been friends for 9 years, but I still don't think it was right what she did. Thanks.
2007-05-01 15:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She only tried but they never did. While my ex and I were e-mailing each other, he told me about the situation without using any names. I had no idea that I was the ex he was referring to, and my best friend was the girl coming on to him. He was always upset about it b/c he said he wasn't interested but she still would try all of this took place through conversations on the phone. Yes, he know that we were friends and that's why he was upset when she was coming on to him. Every time she would suggest meeting up and doing something, he would always bring up me, but she said she didn't care.
2007-05-01 15:54:11 · update #1
id say f*ck her boyfriend, or someone she likes. dont act like it bothers you .. still be friends with her i guess but i mean i wouldnt trust her as much.... jk bout the f8ck part tho
2007-05-01 15:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think that a so called "best friend" would not even think about sleeping with you ex. She is not acting like a friend at all and while it might be tough to end the relationship with her, you are better off. God knows if she would try to pull that s#it again.
2007-05-01 22:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, did she sleep with him or only try how did he respond?did he know this was a friend?personally myself if my best friend hooked up with my ex-i dont think i would trust either of them-but thats just me
2007-05-01 22:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always better to confront problems ... I'd say talk to her about it ... 'he's a nice guy and he was just there' is not a good reason for going out with someone!!
2007-05-01 22:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by free_one1174 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be. Get a new friend and a new man and live your own life!
2007-05-01 22:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by Giannina V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, Ex's are off limits to friends. If my friend hooks up with her, then I don't even consider it. It's not fair for your friendship if she's trying to hook up with him. WEEEEEAAAK!!!
2007-05-01 22:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Danimal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with your life forget about them both your time is not worth wasting it on people that have no respect for you
2007-05-01 22:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by ~~ANGEL45SWEETY~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need friends like her.
2007-05-01 22:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her or him do there thing.
2007-05-01 22:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by addie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋